Reply #3: welcome.

[mopinko]

2 things in your story stuck out for me- people with reduced mobility gain weight. that is my experience with everyone in my life who went through that. especially when there is not much else to be happy about, but food still tastes good. one of the pleasures that you can't escape. how can you fight that?? ;p

the other is, nobody who loses a baby is ever the same. it changes who you are. i have 5 healthy kids, but there is a little notch in my happiness, a little- take nothing for granted- feeling, from the one miscarriage that i had. experiences shape us. they make us. we don't get over them, we can only accept them.

please feel free to come in here and vent. :hug: always available.