Reply #5: Sorry you feel that way.

[Why Syzygy]

I have smudged many people and it wasn't due to believing they had negative energies, although they are around. My intention was to purify them and open gates for blessings and tune them in. If someone said they did not want to be smudged, I would not do it. It's up to you to let her know you have your own rituals (if you do) and appreciate the offer, but no thanks. Depending on your relationship, maybe offer her a tailsman to help with her focus on attracting a boyfriend (like a feather, a gemstone, a wish rock... anything).

Personally, I wish I had a feng shui roommate. Save me the trouble of figuring it all out. I do want my place to have good chi flow. I recently read that a woman who was having trouble finding a boyfriend was told that they were escaping out a certain window. She hung a crystal in that window.

While I say that it is up to you to let her know your feelings, of course I realize that if she is blaming you in any way for her life, that is lame. She should know better.