Reply #8: Welcome mrl821!

[Quakerfriend]

You must remember that just joining DU has made you a whole lot more aware of the truth about what's going on in politics in this country. I suggest that your first friend is just a little bit afraid of what he doesn't know.

I have had a similar situation with some repugs in my family. Remember that the very best thing you can do is to help to educate them. What I do is gently share some info by saying something like this: "I used to think that too until I read "Worse than Watergate by J. Dean" and "The Price of Loyalty" by Paul O'Neil.

Just sow the seeds. And, do it with kindness and understanding of their point of view:crazy: - as crazy as it may seem!

And, with respect to life in general, remember this: We are all here on this earth for only two reasons- loving and learning. If you can remember this then whatever changes come about in your life, whether they appear to be good or bad at the time, will be a bit easier.

Sometimes others will not treat you well, for whatever reason. People only treat others badly because of some pain that they carry inside. It can come in any form- putting you down in front of others, withholding compliments, jealousy etc. You may need to step away from people who seem to drag you down at times. But, still show them kindness. And, try to remember their good qualities and continue to see them in a good light, no matter what they may do.