Reply #8: Even if she did pick up something "bad" don't panic.

[davsand]

I dunno, maybe I'm letting too much of my tradition show here, but IMO, many things that are ahead of people are driven by the choices they make. Free will is paramount, and as a reader I will try and inform clients rather than scare them.

If I am looking at a spread and something jumps out at me like an auto accident (I am just pulling this out of nowhere so don't get freaked out) I'll talk to them about being sure to wear seatbelts and making smart choices about who they get in a car with. The LAST thing I'd ever do would be to tell them "You are maybe gonna die with a broken neck in the next 6 months because your drunk buddy is gonna roll the car you are riding in."

The choice to wear a seatbelt can save your life. The choice not to get in a car with your drunk buddy can keep you safe. In that way, as a reader I am able to help people make better choices sometimes and maybe avoid painful or bad things. Usually it is stuff that is not as extreme as the example I gave you just now, and a lot of the time it is a choice that you can make or not.

I always begin a first reading with a discussion of the fact that the reading is based on what we know NOW. Things DO change, and the reading itself might generate those changes. The future is mutable.

Good luck finding a reader that you have a good feeling for. That identification really IS most important.



Laura