Reply #4: This doesn't equate to there being something wrong w/you--

[bliss_eternal]

in any way. What is her perception of you? Not sure--couldn't say for sure (as I'm sure you know).

But to be honest, if I spent lots of money at someone's store, and felt that they weren't being honest with me about their ability to read for me, I may be inclined to stop spending money at their store. But that's just me.

I'm sorry that you do feel that she's been putting you off and making excuses. :hug: That's a sucky feeling regardless of her reason behind it.

If she feels that she may not be the best reader for you, for some personal reason or vibe that she is getting as a sensitive or a reader, that's a whole other issue. If that is the case, I would think it would be great if she could be honest about it--but in all fairness, how would one say something like that, without hurting someone's feelings (yours)?

If this was the case, that isn't saying that there's something about you that is 'negative' or 'bad.' It could be that you remind her of her best friend and she doesn't feel she could read you appropriately because of this. Or perhaps you remind her of someone that hurt her in her life, and she can't get past that.

It could be a myriad of reasons why. Bottom line, it's her issue, not yours. It would be nice if she could be frank about this, but she may feel ridiculous about her feelings and not really know how to deal with the feeling.

But again--these are all 'possibilties' that may or may not be valid reasons.

If some of that is going on, she may not want to say anything about it and risk losing you as a customer, since you do spend a lot in her store. So maybe, from that perspective it is easier for her to 'make excuses' and put you off--rather than saying she may feel that she is not the best reader for you...

I hope that what I said here made some sense, and wasn't confusing. It's late and I sometimes don't make a lot of sense when it gets late. lol.

I hope that you will let us know how it goes--

Take care!