Reply #13: sometimes

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a DNR is a kind thing in some cases, where using extraordinary measures would extend suffering but not result in good outcome for the patient.

But if there is a directive, or a caring family member or health care power of attorney
involved, then I can't see how the hospital can ignore their wishes.

A rescucitation can be a violent experience and a weak sick elderly person who has alot of health problems or injuries may suffer more as a result.

I was health care power of attorney for my mother, so I and my siblings were involved in decisions regarding our mother.

My friend's Mom didn't have a directive and none were granted health care power of attorney by deed, so the hospital asked the eldest child to provide decision on their Mom's treatment.