Reply #51: If all else fails, shoot the messenger.

[janedoe]

Better yet, develop a list of talking points:

1. If you don't like the message, shoot the messenger.
2. Avoid the facts
3. Avoid the facts at all cost.
4. If you're having difficulty with that, toss out a distraction or two.
5. Repeat steps 1-5 until you feel better.

My credentials can be validated -- but they don't change the facts. Would you like to discuss the facts?

Or, perhaps we should discuss why the facts scare you so much? I am quite serious. Fear is a normal response to something this tragic -- and it indeed was quite tragic! As much as we all wish it would, killing the messenger won't change the facts.

Would you like to discuss the facts?