Reply #27: There is a bit of a problem with that. function not data

[RandomThoughts]

To accept that there are funny moments in my situations is a trap. There are some things that use anxiety to try to use that as an excuse for control.

Basically it says that if you are not happy, then that is why you don't do or are not somewhere. For instance I don't have much fun at the bars, but that is not the point. Because sometimes I do have fun at the bars.


But here is the point about some usages of control. There are things that say you are happier in some place, then make you feel bad by trying to harass you when you are not there. That is terrorism.

That is a dictator saying if you don't submit to them, then they will make it hard on you.

There are things that make something less fun with harassment, then say you can't be there because you weren't happy there.


It is a delusion for control. Or in other words, there is some joy in songs and music, but there is joy in museums and travel, and poker and pool also, and when there is some hardship there, that does not make the joy less, but more. However some people make the hardship to try and tell you that is why you can't be somewhere. That is ridiculous and terrorism.


Also why it is beer and travel money that is due to me, not power, not control, not status or position. But what is due must be paid, because it should not have been used to try and control who and what I am. And someone will send me the beer and travel money that is due.