Reply #24: For me, it's more like being frozen with fear

[alarimer]

I don't know where to start. Oh, I know plenty of conversation starters. Like "what are your hobbies?" But that only goes so far. I am no good at flirting at all. In fact this is what brought this on this evening, although I have been thinking about it for a while. A guy I met yesterday, whom I like well enough to see again, asked me if he was good-looking enough for me. WTF? Now I know this is just flirting but I had no idea what to say: "Yeah, guess you'll do". I didn't know how to respond because, frankly, I am not all that hung up on looks. But to say that sort of sounds like a put-down.