Reply #9: only when nice guys choose not so nice girls

[Fleshdancer]

I love nice guys. I married a nice guy. My friends all like nice guys...we exist, I promise.

The problem I see, however, is that there tends to be a group of nice guys who go after women who don't appreciate them. It's annoying to hear a guy say "why do girls always like assholes?" This is a misplaced question. You shouldn't ask yourself "why do girls like assholes?", but instead, ask yourself "why do I like girls who like assholes?"

If you're a nice guy, then go after the nice girls who like nice guys. You can't ask why the person you're interested in is interested in assholes if she's an asshole too. That's just silly.