Reply #38: My dad passed away recently too. First of all, my

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sincere condolences. I know what you are going through, and it's not easy.

My dad had made no arrangements either. My mom fortunately handled everything, and while she was at it, she made plans for herself as well. I know that was hard, but I also know that she was trying to spare us a lot of future guesswork and expense.

Unfortunately funeral directors/mortuaries find it all too easy to take advantage of people at a very vulnerable time, and their services don't come cheap. I wasn't entirely happy with what transpired with regard to my dad as I think they may have not been entirely honest with my mother. However, it's done and over and I don't intend to revisit it.

I will keep you and your family in my thoughts. I hope eventually memories of good times shared with your dad sustain you and help to bring you peace.