Reply #3: ...get too down on myself (not with my fused vertebrae, I can't)

[Deja Q]

Here Is Your Results Summary:
Dating Strengths
1. Spirituality - 76.9%
2. Sense of Humor - 71.4%
3. Independence - 71.4%
4. Financial Situation - 61.5%
5. Open-Mindedness - 54.5%

:wow:

Dating Weaknesses
1. Appearance - 77.8%
2. Insecurity - 76.9%
3. Pessimism - 66.7%
4. Shyness - 54.2%

Dating Strengths Explained
Spirituality - Your spiritual side brings you peace and balance, and keeps you grounded. This is attractive, as you can help reinforce this quality in other people.
Sense of Humor - Women are attracted to people with a good sense of humor. Be sure to put yours on display!
Independence - Your strong sense of independence comes in handy while dating. You are not held back or tied down; you are free to pursue your interests.
Financial Situation - You've got your financial situation under control, which is a very desirable quality. Be careful to avoid women who are only interested in your money.
Open-Mindedness - You are open to trying new things and entertaining new ideas, and this widens your pool of available women.
Dating Weaknesses Explained
Appearance - Devoting a greater effort at making good first impressions is a must. Try to be fit and develop a style if you want to catch a woman's attention.
Insecurity - Your insecurity makes you doubt yourself, but you must learn to love and trust yourself if you want to succeed in dating.
Pessimism - Too much cynicism can be a turn-off. Try to see the brighter side of things and people will be attracted to your positive outlook.
Shyness - You know all too well the limits shyness places on you. Putting yourself out there in social situations may be difficult, but essential to your dating success.

Summer is Coming - Don't Spend It Alone

(in what country, and should I get a towel?)



Addendum:


He looks more porky than I am... but that's no excuse for me to justify my situation either.