Bait and Switch (reading the withholding sex threads)

[pokerfan]

I was going to post about a friend of mine who got married only to find out his wife hated sex. Much to his surprise as they had been having regular sex for a year before the marriage. After the marriage, nothing. After ten years they split.


Anyway, when I was with the Mountaineers, a doctor friend of mine met a woman in the club. They hiked, canoed, climbed together and even got married on top of a mountain. A few months after the wedding day they sat down to plan a vacation. He wanted to go trekking in Nepal. She wanted to go on a cruise and told him that she didn't really care for all that outdoors stuff. He was flabbergasted and asked her why she joined the club in the first place. She said that she wanted to meet someone. They lasted five years, no children.

Why would someone pretend to be soemone they are not just to get married? Especially in this day and age when marriages are fairly easy to end?

I don't get it.