Reply #29: She has certainly given you several grounds for divorce

[Lydia Leftcoast]

Take them and file for divorce. She is messing with your head and sponging off you. What's the point in hanging on?

I KNOW it's hard to break up a relationship, even one that needs to be broken up.

But you have to save yourself, get your life back in order, get your self-esteem back in order, and be ready when a good woman comes along.

In the meantime, see what you can do to limit her access to credit, say, by taking her name off any joint credit cards. I don't know if this is possible in your case, but I recall seeing ads in the personals section of daily papers saying, "I will no longer be responsible for debts contracted without my signature."

In any case, :hug: