Reply #3: What do you mean by, "I have high standards

[Heidi]

for my friendships,"? Does that mean that those who don't agree with you can't be your freiends? I'm afraid I don't understand. In my estimation, spiritual and intellectual curiosity are good things, and far more interesting than those who simply swallow all that's force-fed to them via culture, environment, etc.

If you don't want to hurt her, then don't do or say anthing with the intention of hurting her. Her reaction is her responsibility, but you'll need to own your intent.

(Welcome to DU. :hi:)