Reply #59: I would have to qualify that

[FizzFuzz]

My instincts have gotten me hooked up with alot of screwy people. Various personality disorders, because they feel familiar to me. (My mother had some severe problems.) Repetition compulsion can suck. Time and again my antenae have been wrong when it comes to romantic attraction issues.

When I met Mr Fuzz, he did NOT get any of my "juices flowing", because I was only used to reactively turning on to people who are seductive/threatening. He was not a player at all, just a completely honest kind person. This was unfamiliar to me and I had to consciously force myself to continue dating him!