Reply #6: That's interesting that you'd say that.

[steely]

I did post our tree on my website - she went fishing, and found us through it (my site with the tree). I'd since dismantled it when I realized "mother's maiden names" are keys to credit and identification that could be stolen.

Anyway, it clobbers me - she asks NO questions. I did ask her if she'd like a tree of her family when we saw her on Christmas - she said yes.

So we'll forward it and see what transpires.

I guess I am the type to understand sincerity in words - although the visits are wonderful. I think back to when I was her age and wonder about all of the questions I had, and if I would have asked them, but she may not be like me at all - or are all kids alike?