Reply #66: Great topic, Ben . . . .

[GrpCaptMandrake]

. . . and I think you hint at a greater truism by raising the issue: there is no such thing as "majority sex." Sex, by its very definition, is a finite, minority act. In the literally naked (sometimes not) act of unmasking (again, sometimes not) oneself to another, or several, we excise ourselves from the great huddled mass of humanity in exchange for the most private of moments (even in a crowd). Realization of that fact is what makes the incredibly repressed right quite possibly the kinkiest of the kinky. They think that by having purely reproductive copulation that they can somehow tap into a collectivist gang bang zeitgeist.

For my part, and, I hope, that of my lovely wife, we will ALWAYS be part of a sexual minority. Whether our acts, or those of our friends, involve leather, mink-lined wrist cuffs, rubber or rutabagas misses the point. Try anything once; twice if you like it.

It's the people who try to declare what is and isn't acceptable who are the kinky ones.