Reply #2: Its a question of what your goals are

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Its the same thing no matter the issue. You have to look at what you want to accomplish and act in a way that can accomplish it. Screaming and hitting them will not accomplish anything except relieving your stress a bit.

You have to sit down and determine what will have an effect. You have to do the things that will change the issues. You have to make your actions count. Sometimes doing what is effective may not be as quick of satisfying as we would like. But it is the path that must be followed.