My exlover and I took in a gay teen

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some many years ago. She lived with us for a couple of years before she got into relationships and moved out. We were like her daddies and she was like our daughter.

Anyway, she now lives with her girlfriend who is mentally ill and they kind of feed off each other's craziness. I always thought the relationship harmless until yesterday....

I went to go visit her at work and she has a new tattoo of a word on the front of her neck, right there below her chin. It sticks out like a sore thumb and looks terrible. I was in shock,I thought it was a joke at first, no way could that be permanent. I had to look away and avoiding laying my eyes on it.

I was just wondering, is it wrong for me to be so shocked? I don't want to hurt her, but I totally feel like I have to tell her what a dumb thing she did. Would knowing what the word was be relevant to all of this?
Edited to add: No way she would have gotten this tattoo three years ago, I totally blame this on her crazy girlfriend.