Reply #49: I'm a lesbian and I agree with you. I know plenty of straight women who

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don't feel the need to have a man in their lives at all times. I mean honestly, with the way a lot of married women talk, they are just the mommy for the new phase in the man's late pubescent (until death) life anyhow. Some married women are happy, but the vast majority do pretty much make the case that marriage and coupling isn't for everyone. That is the smart thing to do if you know what is right for you. If you don't want a boyfriend, it doesn't mean you are a lesbian. It just means you share the not wanting a boyfriend part, not why you don't want one.