Reply #17: I have to say

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that my wife recently went off the pill because she (and many thousands like her) was feeling depressed and had a lowered libido from all of the hormone adjustments to her body. Also, considering that hormone levels in the water have been mutating fish, this is not the best thing.

We use condoms and I plan on getting a snip quite soon. My only concern with the snip is that I have heard stories of things "growing back" so I am not sure I trust it 100% yet. But still worth the extra piece of mind.

it is a tough call - we are not planning on having children at all, but the depression and anxiety she suffered as a side effect was not worth it. Wear a rubber and be careful about how it is used, guys. And ladies - insist! If he refuses, you refuse too!