Reply #97: It was...

[susanna]

...some of her doctors were very unhelpful, actually. They gave her no information at all about the toxicity of the drugs she was taking. They told her if she was worried at all, that she should terminate, since they "couldn't say one way or another."

In the end, because of a lack of solid information, she chose to maintain the pregnancy and also eliminate the drugs while pregnant. It cost her dearly - most folks have no idea. The good news? She adores her son and they do have a good bond, that much I see. I guess I just wonder what she missed...we all hear so many things about "you must," and "you should," that it gets confusing, especially for women who do not have textbook, "happy" pregnancies because of other conditions.

So thanks, MuseRider. You ease my mind a great deal.