Reply #73: I have an interesting question...

[The Doctor.]

My 'Lying sack of Ex' abandoned her marriage for no more noble a reason than a guy she met at a strip-club offered her a life without responsibility or introspection. Seeing how she would never have to actually regard her behavior with him (at least as far as she could imagine), while I, otoh, took exception to the children going through her purse which often had cocaine in it, it was obvious to her which was the 'path of least resistance'.

So she left, I had no idea why at the time. Don't scoff oh pernicious ones... she had me fooled. I didn't find out about her son-of-a-multi-millionaire boyfriend until a month after she left.

Had I known, I never would have let her take our children. Even working 12 hour days, I would have happily engaged all my modest resources to keep them at home. Out of one side of her face she had me convinced it was 'temporary', the other side looked towards living on a half-million dollar piece of property (which is nice for Corfu, NY) and starting a 'new' family with an arrogant teenager who was 20 years her senior.

He too, what being the son of a local industrialist and congressional candidate, has a reputation for the 'nose candy'. (They met at a strip-club fercryinoutloud)

It doesn't matter that she and the kids live in a trailer park now (plenty of decent people live there). She has the children in tow while she quests desperately for the 'Happily Ever After' this disgusting asshole (to whom I owe my freedom from such a duplicitous creature, but also the departure of my dearly beloved children) originally offered her.

I know that a good portion, if not all, of the money I pay her goes straight the fuck up her nose rather than to the children.

I know that hair testing will prove one of two things;

1) She uses copious amounts of cocaine.
2) She used expensive detoxification remedies to avoid testing positive for copious amounts of cocaine.

So... Here's my question;

If I leased a billboard stating that she (name and all) is a coke-head, and I worry (as I do, even here and now) about the safety of the children, then please tell me, all or any of you who have such a clue;

Would that be wrong?

I want to say something about my ex. It is something she did that I don't like. The justification is different, but the point is the same; I and my children are wronged... Am I not allowed to speak of it?