Reply #18: I think adoption is great but from what I hear couples

[DemBones DemBones]

almost have to take damaged babies to adopt an infant, or go to China and that's usually an older infant. Lots of people want to start with a young infant, preferably newborn, not adopt an older child, and very few are willing to take on a child born with an addiction or birth defect because of the emotional and financial cost to a family.