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Herman Munster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 05:26 PM Original message |
The 30-year-old virgins |
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Lisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 05:29 PM Response to Original message |
1. "surprising number of women"? |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 05:31 PM Response to Original message |
2. You know, I don't remember anyone asking that..... |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 05:36 PM Response to Reply #2 |
5. Probably. There's no anticipation of what's coming next (NO PUN) |
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Lisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 05:43 PM Response to Reply #5 |
10. That's why I'm going with Plan A! |
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slutticus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 05:33 PM Response to Original message |
3. Wasn't this a show on Lifetime? |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 05:35 PM Response to Original message |
4. I'm 35, still a virgin, and scared to date too. So what? |
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Herman Munster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 05:38 PM Response to Reply #4 |
7. how exactly do you define virgin? |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 06:11 PM Response to Reply #7 |
22. And would your definition include molestation, or possibly worse? |
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The Straight Story (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 06:42 PM Response to Reply #22 |
39. good question my friend |
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whistle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 05:38 PM Response to Original message |
6. It was Oscar Levant who said, "I knew Doris Day before she was a virgin." |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 05:42 PM Response to Original message |
8. Oh, bull. We're spending A Billion Dollars a year in taxpayer $$$$ telling kids they ALL should |
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Lisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 05:47 PM Response to Reply #8 |
12. I just laugh at the right-wingers who are pushing abstinence |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 05:55 PM Response to Reply #12 |
15. I lost my virginity at age 16. I was pretty active, sexually, in my youth and young adulthood. |
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Lisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 06:08 PM Response to Reply #15 |
21. my thoughts exactly, impeachdubya |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 08:23 PM Response to Reply #15 |
56. You sound a lot like me here, though I think you're from an older generation? |
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nonconformist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 09:03 PM Response to Reply #56 |
58. I feel the same |
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Xenotime (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-28-07 03:53 AM Response to Reply #12 |
138. That is some of the biggest crap to come along in years... |
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Bigmack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 05:42 PM Response to Original message |
9. These guys must ... |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 05:45 PM Response to Original message |
11. Sounds Like She Got Lucky |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 05:52 PM Response to Reply #11 |
14. That's what I was thinking. |
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StarryNite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 05:59 PM Response to Reply #11 |
16. Exactly! |
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OnceUponTimeOnTheNet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 05:49 PM Response to Original message |
13. k&r Interesting thread. nt. |
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Zech Marquis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 06:00 PM Response to Original message |
17. Im still a virgin |
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StarryNite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 06:49 PM Response to Reply #17 |
42. Stay true to yourself. |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 06:54 PM Response to Reply #17 |
43. Good for you |
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madokie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 06:02 PM Response to Original message |
18. I just can't wrap my little pea brain around a 30 year old virgin |
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StarryNite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 06:07 PM Response to Reply #18 |
20. You're silly. |
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Lisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 06:12 PM Response to Reply #18 |
24. let me get this straight -- you're offering to wrap your brain around a virgin? |
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madokie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 06:22 PM Response to Reply #24 |
30. Can't never tell for it might be fun |
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Lisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 06:25 PM Response to Reply #30 |
33. big .... frontal lobe, eh? |
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calteacherguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 07:20 PM Response to Reply #18 |
47. Then you truly do have a very small brain. nt |
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madokie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 08:01 PM Response to Reply #47 |
54. theres no doubt about that ;-) |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 06:06 PM Response to Original message |
19. How ironic |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 06:12 PM Response to Reply #19 |
23. Our Mothers Were Less Virgins Than We Knew - Granny, Too |
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Lisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 06:15 PM Response to Reply #23 |
26. good point ... my folks didn't have me until they were in their 40s |
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nonconformist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 06:16 PM Response to Reply #23 |
27. I will never forget the day that my dear great-grandmother..... |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 06:20 PM Response to Reply #27 |
29. Every generation thinks THEY are pushing the envelope.. |
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Lisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 06:23 PM Response to Reply #29 |
31. yeah! check the cancellation date on the stamp! |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 06:30 PM Response to Reply #31 |
35. Yep there have always been a lot of 7 lb preemies..(6 month gestation) |
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Berry Cool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 09:32 PM Response to Reply #35 |
66. I feel really sorry for those who grow up thinking the older girl in their family is Big Sister |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 09:39 PM Response to Reply #66 |
70. My aunt's friend had a wacky family |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 02:42 AM Response to Reply #35 |
76. Like Winston Churchill, for instance. |
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Kaylee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-28-07 09:45 PM Response to Reply #31 |
143. God yes!! My mother went to a family reunion and found out |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 08:02 PM Response to Reply #27 |
55. I think early sex and pregnancy was almost |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 06:25 PM Response to Reply #23 |
32. My great grandmother outlived two husbands and |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 06:46 PM Response to Reply #32 |
40. My Great-Great Grandmother Was a Madam |
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regnaD kciN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 07:05 PM Response to Reply #19 |
46. It's a strange, strange world we live in, Master Jack... |
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John Q. Citizen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 07:26 PM Response to Reply #19 |
50. To each their own. Worrying about what other people think or do is a losing |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 09:17 PM Response to Reply #19 |
63. my $.02 |
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Berry Cool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 09:35 PM Response to Reply #63 |
67. Perhaps he is making assumptions about the girl |
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Lisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 02:12 AM Response to Reply #67 |
74. Or she might have found herself in a situation where she could have had sex, but ... |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 09:35 AM Response to Reply #67 |
79. If by age 30 she'd never met anyone who meets "the minimum standard" |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 08:01 PM Response to Reply #19 |
127. It doesn't need to be right or wrong. Everyone can just find the partners that match their own |
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nonconformist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 06:14 PM Response to Original message |
25. I wonder if she would have better luck if she was forthcoming about it up front |
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Herman Munster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 07:54 PM Response to Reply #25 |
53. that's very sad |
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nonconformist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 09:07 PM Response to Reply #53 |
61. It is very sad |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 06:18 PM Response to Original message |
28. Oh bullshit.. She's wearing it as a "badge of virtuosity" |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 06:31 PM Response to Reply #28 |
36. no, virtue is what she has; virtuosity is what she lacks... |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 06:33 PM Response to Reply #36 |
37. Ya got me |
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calteacherguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 07:23 PM Response to Reply #28 |
48. Wow, what do you feel threatened by? And why does everyone have to be like "most?" |
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LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 07:29 PM Response to Reply #28 |
52. It is the guys' choice as well, but it sounds like they could have been more tactful about it. |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 08:43 PM Response to Reply #52 |
57. I think they were afraid that if they were her "first" |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 09:50 AM Response to Reply #57 |
80. there should be a way to say, "I was saving myself, but things have changed..." |
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Berry Cool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 09:37 PM Response to Reply #28 |
68. You're making an awful lot of assumptions about "normal" people |
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Berry Cool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 06:28 PM Response to Original message |
34. What I fail to understand is why one's own sex life became just another party topic. |
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Lisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 06:39 PM Response to Reply #34 |
38. maybe it fits with people being disinterested in culture, or current events? |
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nonconformist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-28-07 01:15 PM Response to Reply #38 |
141. So being open and honest about sex means you're a classless fool now? |
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Lisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-28-07 08:29 PM Response to Reply #141 |
142. Sure, it's possible to be open and honest ... |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 06:48 PM Response to Reply #34 |
41. Because Sex Has Become Part of Our Social Culture |
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tammywammy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 07:02 PM Response to Reply #34 |
45. I don't understand it either |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 07:55 PM Response to Reply #34 |
123. Read Foucault |
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porphyrian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 06:57 PM Response to Original message |
44. I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting to be a virgin or wanting to have sex. |
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calteacherguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 07:24 PM Response to Reply #44 |
49. Well said. nt |
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porphyrian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 07:26 PM Response to Reply #49 |
51. Thanks. It's really how I feel about it. -n/t |
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cgrindley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 09:06 PM Response to Original message |
59. I wouldn't date a virgin |
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Berry Cool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 09:38 PM Response to Reply #59 |
69. Then you're essentially writing off a whole universe of people |
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cgrindley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 02:44 PM Response to Reply #69 |
86. No... I'm writing off a very very very tiny minority of people |
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wuushew (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 02:51 PM Response to Reply #86 |
87. Your lack of empathy is a big part of the problem |
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cgrindley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 04:04 PM Response to Reply #87 |
97. It's not a lack of tact or empathy |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 04:33 PM Response to Reply #97 |
102. some people are just better at relationships than others... |
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cgrindley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 05:46 PM Response to Reply #102 |
105. That's fair |
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LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 09:06 PM Response to Original message |
60. I know a girl who was a virgin until she was 27-28 and her reason was... |
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jgraz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 07:23 PM Response to Reply #60 |
112. Lame n/t |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 07:30 PM Response to Reply #60 |
115. Sounds pretty smart to me. |
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Triana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 09:13 PM Response to Original message |
62. One word about the guy: What an arrogant, self-centered pr*ck...that is all (n/t) |
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Mountainman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 09:18 PM Response to Reply #62 |
64. I agree. My wife was a virgin when we met. She was in her early 20's. |
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Triana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 09:25 PM Response to Reply #64 |
65. You are a very wise mountainman! (n/t) |
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Berry Cool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 09:40 PM Response to Reply #65 |
71. Indeed. |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 01:07 AM Response to Reply #71 |
73. Well, to be fair... |
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Lisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 02:23 AM Response to Reply #73 |
75. my friends who've "been around the block" are the first ones I run to ... |
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Mutineer (659 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 09:58 AM Response to Reply #71 |
82. Because if you haven't had a LTR by the time you're in your 40's or 50's |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-26-07 11:45 PM Response to Original message |
72. Really stupid attitude |
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orleans (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 03:13 AM Response to Original message |
77. i viewed my virginity as if it was a disease that i needed to cure. |
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ellie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 11:13 AM Response to Reply #77 |
83. Me too! |
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loser_user (155 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 05:26 PM Response to Reply #77 |
103. I hated my virginity as well |
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BurningDog (184 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 04:16 AM Response to Original message |
78. What guy is seconds away from 'sealing the deal' and then... |
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nonconformist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 12:08 PM Response to Reply #78 |
84. Probably a guy who is in bed with a nervous, awkward woman |
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Lisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 10:01 PM Response to Reply #84 |
131. "nervous", "awkward", "doesn't know what she's doing" |
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Akoto (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 09:54 AM Response to Original message |
81. I'm a virgin. |
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Cessna Invesco Palin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 12:47 PM Response to Original message |
85. People are fucking idiots about sex... |
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CT_Progressive (889 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 02:58 PM Response to Original message |
88. I agree with the guys - I'd never be with another virgin. |
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jgraz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 03:08 PM Response to Reply #88 |
90. Hoo boy are you gonna get it |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 07:31 PM Response to Reply #88 |
116. Ew. |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 07:50 PM Response to Reply #88 |
120. those aren't facts, but opinions |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 08:00 PM Response to Reply #88 |
126. I think all of those are worth dealing with in order to "boldly go where no man has gone before" |
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jgraz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 03:06 PM Response to Original message |
89. Staying a virgin is a valid choice. As is not wanting to date one. |
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CT_Progressive (889 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 03:14 PM Response to Reply #89 |
91. Good post. I would not date a republican, either. |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 03:22 PM Response to Reply #89 |
93. Sometimes it isn't a choice |
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jgraz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 03:39 PM Response to Reply #93 |
96. You never thought to ask anyone? |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 04:21 PM Response to Reply #96 |
100. Well, no actually. |
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jgraz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 04:30 PM Response to Reply #100 |
101. See, that's exactly my point |
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TZ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 05:36 PM Response to Reply #89 |
104. What about someone in their 30's who is a virgin |
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Herman Munster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 06:03 PM Response to Reply #104 |
106. I think people just don't understand what they don't know |
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jgraz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 07:18 PM Response to Reply #106 |
111. Hah, that's happened to me |
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Lisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 10:11 PM Response to Reply #111 |
132. do you think it would have helped if she'd been up front about it? |
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jgraz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 10:19 PM Response to Reply #132 |
133. Totally |
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Lisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 10:40 PM Response to Reply #133 |
134. that's good to hear |
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Herman Munster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 11:24 PM Response to Reply #134 |
135. I'd frankly get experience any way I can if I was a 30 year old virgin |
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Lisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 11:49 PM Response to Reply #135 |
136. If I felt I had to lie to a friend, just to have sex -- I'd have more wrong with me ... |
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Herman Munster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 11:57 PM Response to Reply #136 |
137. I'm not judging you in any way |
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jgraz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 07:09 PM Response to Reply #104 |
109. Like I said, I'm saying nothing about the "value" of someone who's a virgin @ 30 |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 07:58 PM Response to Reply #89 |
125. I couldn't agree more. I don't know why the woman in the OP needed the approval of the man. |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 03:20 PM Response to Original message |
92. That nearly happened to me |
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Kansas Wyatt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 03:28 PM Response to Original message |
94. I dated a 25 year old once, who was a virgin and she wanted me... |
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nonconformist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 04:13 PM Response to Reply #94 |
98. I think that the guys were far more concerned about her feelings than she led on |
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Mandate My Ass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 04:21 PM Response to Reply #98 |
99. I agree. |
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Tierra_y_Libertad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 03:31 PM Response to Original message |
95. "Celibacy is it's own punishment" - bumper sticker |
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originalpckelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 06:10 PM Response to Original message |
107. Where are these women??? Me = totally willing to help out. |
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Herman Munster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 06:16 PM Response to Reply #107 |
108. LOL, i think you are on to something, I think all these virgin women |
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coffee_strong (91 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 07:12 PM Response to Reply #108 |
110. From conversations I've had |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 07:28 PM Response to Original message |
113. Deleted message |
jgraz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 07:30 PM Response to Reply #113 |
114. Wow, I knew the broad brushes would come out eventually. |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 07:33 PM Response to Reply #114 |
117. Of course sex is a normal part of life, never said it wasn't. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 07:48 PM Response to Reply #117 |
118. Deleted message |
JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 07:50 PM Response to Original message |
119. The guy she had been dating for three months asked that question because it's a less rude form of... |
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jgraz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 07:51 PM Response to Reply #119 |
121. If he'd been dating her for three months, he should have known the answer |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 07:53 PM Response to Reply #121 |
122. There's a moment where "Why didn't I have sex with her yet" becomes "Maybe nobody did" in the mind |
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jgraz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 07:55 PM Response to Reply #122 |
124. It says a lot about how their communication had been going up to that point |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 09:09 PM Response to Reply #119 |
128. Three months and no nookie? I don't know whether to think he's a good guy |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 09:28 PM Response to Reply #128 |
130. I think he's a good guy who suddenly realized the enormity of the situation |
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cgrindley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-28-07 04:48 AM Response to Reply #128 |
139. I wouldn't call anyone back after two weeks of no sex |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-27-07 09:15 PM Response to Original message |
129. If the chick is a virgin or the town bike, it doesn't matter |
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madokie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-28-07 06:03 AM Response to Reply #129 |
140. There is some good advice there |
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