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MrCoffee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 03:32 PM
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Poll question: Do you care what other DU'ers think about you?
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Fire Walk With Me Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 03:33 PM
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1. Yes and no.
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MrCoffee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 03:33 PM
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2. not an option, waffler.
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Fire Walk With Me Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 03:39 PM
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15. I like waffles.
They're like pancakes, with little squares on them.

http://youtube.com/watch?v=o9dBiw7xfVU
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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 03:33 PM
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3. A very few.
<5
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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 03:34 PM
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4. Why would I? The chances of me even getting to meet any are slim.
I do value opinions of many here, but if you don't like me, tough! I have many more things in life to worry about!!


:)
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MrCoffee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 03:34 PM
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8. you win
:applause: standing ovation. :applause:
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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 03:36 PM
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9. Yay me!!
:P
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Oeditpus Rex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 03:53 PM
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25. I don't understand that
Your consideration of people is predicated on meeting them? Do you not have friends at DU you've never met? :shrug:



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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 03:58 PM
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33. Of course I consider many people here friends.
I was just thinking that if I had to quit posting on DU for whatever reason, many here wouldn't notice. Having a frienship online is a little different than having a physical friendship. It seems they are easier to forget. :shrug: I don't know what I am saying really. My point is I don't care what others think of me. I try to be a good caring person. And that is all I can do.
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 03:34 PM
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5. some of du.
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terrya Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 03:34 PM
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6. There are certain DU'ers whose opinion of me I care about.
Yes, of course.
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texas1928 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 03:34 PM
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7. No...
They don't know me.
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Gormy Cuss Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 03:37 PM
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10. I don't care what they think of me, but I do care when they cast aspargus at me.
I'd throw it back but that's a waste of good vegetables.
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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 03:37 PM
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11. There are a few people
I care very strongly about, and many more that I like a lot. Those people I care a great deal how they feel about me.

I would like to be liked or at least not disliked by everyone. I realize that is impossible, so I don't really sweat it overall.
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Inchworm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 03:54 PM
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26. Oops lol
Edited on Wed Dec-05-07 03:55 PM by Inchworm
Hi, you!

:yoiks:
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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 04:06 PM
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40. What did you say?
:P
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Inchworm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 06:29 PM
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62. I read subject of thread
Figured I'd read your answer. You know. then. being the stalker that I am, I read what you said then I replied to the main thread here.

But now that I have yer attention...

How Are You?!? :D

Flirt- Flirt- Flirt- :loveya:

:hi:
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DarkTirade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 03:55 PM
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29. Okay, I GUESS I'll stop disliking you then...
but just because I'm a nice guy. :P
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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 04:06 PM
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42. Yay!
I think you are a nice guy, btw. ;)
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DarkTirade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 04:39 PM
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45. Awww, thanks.
:blush:
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plcdude Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 05:10 PM
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46. I think
and have always thought you are awesomely intelligent and mature.
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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 05:36 PM
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57. Thank you.
I think the same of you.

:)
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xchrom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 03:38 PM
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12. some certain few -- yes.
but by and large no.

this is the internet -- and nothing should be taken too seriously.
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 03:39 PM
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14. xchrom cares enough about me to put me in his sig line
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xchrom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 06:28 PM
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61. i actually care about you very much. nt
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skygazer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 03:39 PM
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13. Piss off
:P
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MrCoffee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 03:40 PM
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17. !
:rofl:
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 03:40 PM
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16. A few of them.
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NewWaveChick1981 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 03:40 PM
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18. Nope.
:hi: :) I yam who I yam. :P
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Oeditpus Rex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 03:43 PM
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19. Certain ones, sure
Like, if they make a mean kosher tamale.



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ohiosmith Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 03:43 PM
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20. Only the ones that one day I may be in a position to take advantage of.
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porphyrian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 03:49 PM
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21. I'd be in trouble if I did. -n/t
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 03:50 PM
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22. Only you.
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MrCoffee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 03:51 PM
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24. look here, smarty pants
:rofl: good answer!
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rug Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 03:50 PM
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23. Only the regulated ones.
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DarkTirade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 03:54 PM
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27. Depends on the DUer.
There are a few (mostly lounge lizards :) ) whose opinions I care about, even fewer who I wouldn't care about at all, but as for the rest, I'd at least listen to to see if their arguments have merit.

As for totally not caring though, the poster would really have to demonstrate that they're either a loony or a complete ass or just generally someone not worth listening to. I've never put anyone on my ignore list, only thought about it a few times before.
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ceile Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 03:55 PM
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28. Just you, baby!
:P
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MrCoffee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 03:56 PM
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32. you and Midlo are going on The List
tsk tsk tsk


:rofl:
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Inchworm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 03:55 PM
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30. Not usually
I just try to have fun without pissin anyone off :)

I think I make more people mad when it komes to spelin, grammar and punctuat'n then have my drunkest posts :P

:hi:
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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 06:29 PM
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63. I
*heart*

u

mostly. :P
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Inchworm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 06:43 PM
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72. Awww shucks
You are always fun to play with too. In fact I do remember us being reprimanded in a thread for spreading too much sunshine :P

I <3 U 2 (did I spell it write?)

Hehe..

:hug::loveya::hug:
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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 03:56 PM
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31. Yes, but it depends on the DUer.
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 04:02 PM
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37. You knows I loves ya!
:loveya:
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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 04:03 PM
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38. I know that!
I love you back. :loveya:

And I know you know that. :hi:
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 04:06 PM
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41. *sigh*
Indeed, I do.
:hug:
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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 06:29 PM
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65. ...
:hug:
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 03:59 PM
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34. 3...
but I clicked 4, naturally.
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MrCoffee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 04:01 PM
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36. my question is...
who else clicked 4???
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johnnie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 04:00 PM
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35. Not any more
A few years ago I didn't want to piss anyone off or anything like that so I was concerned. Typically I don't give a shit what people think about me, but being that this is an online community, I know sometimes people take things differently online so I watched myself.

These days, I don't care at all.
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lost-in-nj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 04:04 PM
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39. I don't really care what they think BUT
I would hope that if they had a problem with me or mis-understood me (which can happen)
that they would ask me or tell me about it.....

Just like I would and have....

There are some DUers I read but don't post to because I could get into trouble....
just easier to move along.....


:hi: :hi:

lost
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SOteric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 04:35 PM
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43. One of 'em, sure. The rest, notsomuch.
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matcom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 06:29 PM
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64. you BETTER make that TWO!
biatch! :P
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SOteric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-06-07 11:13 AM
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73. Yes, okay. I see your point.
I do in fact also care what Mrs.Matcom thinks about me. And since she persists inexplicably in caring what you think, I suppose I give a half a rat's ass about what you think as well.

So make that 2.5 DUers.
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Dukkha Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 04:39 PM
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44. judging by my ignore list, no.
a virtual community this large will have a lot of bad seeds, as well as trolls and disruptors.
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sniffa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 05:12 PM
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47. i only care if they don't get my jokes
i'm quite funny.
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MrCoffee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 05:17 PM
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49. ?
:shrug:
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sniffa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 05:20 PM
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53. i'm glad you asked that
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MrCoffee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 05:53 PM
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59. yeah...i thought i got that, but i'm not sure
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judaspriestess Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 05:13 PM
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48. Hell NO
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Guava Jelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 05:18 PM
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50. Yep
Specially those who I care about.
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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 06:30 PM
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66. I think you are
the knees of them fuzzy black and yellow flying thingies.

:loveya:
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Guava Jelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 06:33 PM
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68. You know i just loves me some Bnl
You are a total sweetie :loveya:
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 05:19 PM
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51. Depends
and I don't mean the adult diapers either. :P
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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 06:31 PM
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67. Stop picking on me!
and my incontinence.

:hi:

How are you? I haven't talked to you in forever!
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 06:40 PM
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69. Hi BNL!
:hi:

I'm exactly the same except fatter and colder! So sorry to hear about your... problem. :P
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Blue-Jay Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 05:20 PM
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52. Of course I do! I'm very needy.
Love me?
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sniffa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 05:21 PM
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54. IGNORED!!!!
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Blue-Jay Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 05:35 PM
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56. Gaaaaah!
I feel so lonely now.

So cold.... so cold....
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some guy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 05:34 PM
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55. a suffusion of yellow
I don't much care, but at the same time I prefer not to irritate or annoy people with what I post.

There's more than enough anger, sadness and pain in the world; I try not to add to it whenever possible. :)

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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 05:36 PM
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58. There is an old Earth expression: "If you cared what other people think of you...
"

People who think of others, how it relates to them, and how they can change - waaaaay too civilized and most of the time one would be changing for the other's benefit; never their own.

That or the one caring to everything everyone else says would get all depressed and paranoid...?

I don't know what to think. Anything I say is merely based on personal experience and little else.

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CreekDog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 06:07 PM
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60. yes, but i sure don't act like i do
:shrug:
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Der Blaue Engel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 06:40 PM
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70. Generally, yes
There are a few whose opinions of me are utterly ignorable, but for the most part, I prefer that even people that I strongly disagree with don't think of me as an ass.

And, hey, it's nice to be liked.
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bluedigger Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-05-07 06:43 PM
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71. Only the ones who like me.
Of course I speak in the theoretical abstract.
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