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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 10:16 PM Original message |
DU women: I could really use some advice. |
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CatBoreal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 10:27 PM Response to Original message |
1. First off... |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 10:50 PM Response to Reply #1 |
4. Thanks a bunch for the good advice. The hitting part |
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RevCheesehead (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 10:36 PM Response to Original message |
2. gently whisper "watch the shoulder" |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 11:14 PM Response to Reply #2 |
9. It's been five years since the last surgery. |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 10:45 PM Response to Original message |
3. I agree with the above posters regarding the timing of discussing this |
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SW FL Dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 10:52 PM Response to Original message |
5. In any relationship, honesty is the best policy |
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pokerfan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 10:53 PM Response to Original message |
6. Just remember to dress for romance |
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hickman1937 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 10:53 PM Response to Original message |
7. Sorry, sounds like one of those passive/aggressive things to me. |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 11:05 PM Response to Reply #7 |
8. I appreciate your honesty and courage for posting that. |
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hickman1937 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 11:21 PM Response to Reply #8 |
11. Probably you should get some one to talk to also. |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 11:30 PM Response to Reply #11 |
14. No apology needed for offering your opinion. |
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hickman1937 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 12:00 AM Response to Reply #14 |
24. Will you know when the load has become too much to bear? |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 12:16 AM Response to Reply #24 |
28. Thanks for your concern; you're being a good friend here. |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 04:48 PM Response to Reply #8 |
43. I just want to second Hickman's advice. |
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NV Whino (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 11:20 PM Response to Original message |
10. All of the above sounds like good advice... |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 11:23 PM Response to Reply #10 |
12. Unfortunately not. I've even tried Lidocaine patches, but |
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RevCheesehead (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 11:29 PM Response to Reply #12 |
13. Then that's serious enough that she should be careful. |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 11:35 PM Response to Reply #13 |
16. Dang, Rev, you're getting me to think right down to the |
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RevCheesehead (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 11:42 PM Response to Reply #16 |
18. Of course you can. |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 11:45 PM Response to Reply #18 |
20. Will do. You sure you don't mind? |
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RevCheesehead (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 11:48 PM Response to Reply #20 |
21. If I didn't mean it, I wouldn't have posted it. |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 12:09 AM Response to Reply #21 |
26. Done. And appreciated. |
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RevCheesehead (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 12:23 AM Response to Reply #26 |
29. Anytime. |
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RagingInMiami (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 11:33 PM Response to Original message |
15. If that's the biggest dilemna in your marriage |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 11:44 PM Response to Reply #15 |
19. I could do that, because everything else is really good. |
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CaliforniaPeggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 11:36 PM Response to Original message |
17. Oh boy my dear Redstone..... |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 11:49 PM Response to Reply #17 |
22. Thanks, CP. Just hug on the right side, OK? |
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BlackVelvet04 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 11:49 PM Response to Original message |
23. Maybe it would help if you |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 12:37 AM Response to Reply #23 |
31. No, that's not a problem. She does not have any reason |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 12:07 AM Response to Original message |
25. you have to reposition yourself sillly... |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 12:25 AM Response to Reply #25 |
30. There you go. I just have to sit with my left side in the corner |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 03:36 PM Response to Reply #30 |
40. as a semi-reformed shoulder slapper myself... |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 04:07 PM Response to Reply #40 |
41. I found the perfect corner to put the end of the couch into. |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 06:03 PM Response to Reply #41 |
44. maybe i missing something, but can't you just sit at the other end of the |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 06:43 PM Response to Reply #44 |
45. Well, it's my left shoulder, so I have to put the left end of the couch |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 06:58 PM Response to Reply #45 |
46. does your couch have two ends? |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 08:17 PM Response to Reply #46 |
47. I just laughed out loud, reading that. |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 08:36 PM Response to Reply #47 |
49. the upside down thing? LOL. yes please have her take pics also... |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 10:01 PM Response to Reply #49 |
52. Well, Betty, she bit me. |
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Tyrone Slothrop (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 11:18 PM Response to Reply #52 |
60. Hey Redstone |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 11:55 PM Response to Reply #60 |
63. It's ridiculously easy if you have a digital camera that you can set |
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Sugar Smack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 12:11 AM Response to Original message |
27. I would make my pain loud & clear, Cuz- |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 01:08 AM Response to Reply #27 |
32. Hey, thanks, cuz, for giving me a good chuckle. On occasion, |
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anitar1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 01:10 AM Response to Original message |
33. Find out where her pain spot is and smack her back. |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 01:18 AM Response to Reply #33 |
34. No, I don't believe it's deliberate. Just unthinking. |
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RFKHumphreyObama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 02:17 AM Response to Original message |
35. OK perhaps this is bad advice |
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MilesColtrane (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 02:50 AM Response to Original message |
36. Respond with a thwack to the forehead ridges,and |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 03:07 AM Response to Original message |
37. Speaking as a wife whose husband has a "bum knee" |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 08:39 AM Response to Reply #37 |
38. But that would mean doubling my pouncing, which would wear me out. |
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chemenger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 09:51 AM Response to Original message |
39. Wish I could provide you with some helpful advice |
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MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 04:09 PM Response to Original message |
42. Encourage her to smack you on the butt |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 08:18 PM Response to Original message |
48. A very ginger hug for Redstone |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 09:27 PM Response to Reply #48 |
51. Why, thank you. That was a nice thing to say. |
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leftofthedial (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 08:45 PM Response to Original message |
50. hit her back |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 10:24 PM Response to Reply #50 |
53. Do you know what she looks like? |
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leftofthedial (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 10:26 PM Response to Reply #53 |
54. good luck with the shoulder |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 10:28 PM Response to Reply #54 |
55. Thanks, LOTD. I hear you've been having some Big Weather out there. |
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leftofthedial (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 11:12 PM Response to Reply #55 |
59. got the blanket |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 11:41 PM Response to Reply #59 |
61. Blanket? Powerbook? If you have a fireplace with propane logs, |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 10:29 PM Response to Original message |
56. Passive/aggressive? |
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electron_blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 10:30 PM Response to Original message |
57. Wow, so sorry about the pain! My first thought, which is echoed by others |
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El Fuego (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 11:00 PM Response to Original message |
58. She doesn't seem to have much empathy for you |
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1monster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 11:52 PM Response to Original message |
62. Can you have a hard lightweight plastic shell made that would be strapped |
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