I never wanted to come here.......I need it now. Husband is losing his mind....short term memory

[Hugin]

29. I really wish I had some advice for you...

I’m on my third go around with a similar situation and it’s never been the same.

Keep in mind, it’s not your fault in any way. That you care only means you are human. These things are unfixable, but they are always adaptable.

On the airplane emergency procedures given before takeoff, when they say, “put the oxygen mask on yourself first”. They aren’t kidding around. Build, maintain, and use a support network based on you and your own needs. It’s okay!

You may find that he has good days and bad days. This will vary. Don’t count on it happening. Don’t schedule anything around it, just enjoy the good days for what they are.

It’s the journey and not the destination.