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mr_lebowski

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6. Here's my best 'passive aggressive' example ...

Reply to JustABozoOnThisBus (Original post)

Thu Sep 6, 2018, 02:06 PM

Sep 2018

Abused Wife: "If you don't stop treating me like this, I'm going to leave you and never speak to you again"
Abusive Husband: "You can leave, but even if you do ... I'm going to love you forever!"

I.E. basically 'on paper', the words 'sound nice', but in reality, the actual conveyed meaning is 'aggressive'.

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Can someone explain the words "ratfucking" and "gaslighting"? [View all] JustABozoOnThisBus Sep 2018 OP

Google both terms. The definition is the first thing up for both . . . Journeyman Sep 2018 #1

Gaslighting is from an old movie with Ingrid Bergman and Charles Boyer MaryMagdaline Sep 2018 #2

Passive agressive MaryMagdaline Sep 2018 #3

Thanks to all, I think I'm closer to understanding. JustABozoOnThisBus Sep 2018 #8

I specialize in passive aggressive 😊 MaryMagdaline Sep 2018 #9

So does my husband. ;) cynara88 Jul 2019 #12

Gaslighting ariadne0614 Sep 2018 #4

Ratfucking is a Nixonian term revived to describe Karl Rove's methods. byronius Sep 2018 #5

Here's my best 'passive aggressive' example ... mr_lebowski Sep 2018 #6

Passive aggressive. See Melania. gibraltar72 Sep 2018 #7

Gaslighting is like asserting what someone experienced didn't happen JonLP24 Oct 2018 #10

k and r..good examples, and good definitions.. Stuart G Oct 2018 #11