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elleng

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6. Thanks, mop.
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 12:14 PM
Dec 2015

Last edited Wed Dec 16, 2015, 02:08 PM - Edit history (1)

I was just getting ready to head out/north when she called me and said, while she 'needs' my help, I shouldn't go now, due to 'complications.' I suspect the appearance of things, about which she is much more concerned than I, is one of the 'complications.' So I won't be offering my suggestions to her, not immediately, anyway. 'Interesting' that I made the suggestion of a 'shrink' for her, to him, years ago, before they were married, I think.

He is stable, and will likely be able to spend a lot of time with the kids.

The kids are doing very well, were when I left anyway, she's a FINE mother, and he a fine father. I am concerned that the 2 year old boy will miss his father A LOT, but it might be that that caused her to waive me off, maybe husband, E, is/will be spending time there, and she doesn't want me to 'intrude.'

His folks are nearby, and have established a great relationship with the boy (and working on the baby girl.) Wondering about Christmas; may be at their home.

I am sorry to hear this, my dear elleng... CaliforniaPeggy Dec 2015 #1
Thanks, Peg. elleng Dec 2015 #3
It will be a comfort to her to have you there, especially to help with the wee ones. No Vested Interest Dec 2015 #2
THANKS, Vested. elleng Dec 2015 #4
oh dear. mopinko Dec 2015 #5
Thanks, mop. elleng Dec 2015 #6
oy vey. mopinko Dec 2015 #7
I don't know what to think, exactly, elleng Dec 2015 #8
those eggs are the best. mopinko Dec 2015 #9
Yes they are! elleng Dec 2015 #10
Oh Ellen, I am so sorry! LiberalEsto Dec 2015 #11
THANKS for having my back, LibEst. elleng Dec 2015 #12
That's good to hear LiberalEsto Dec 2015 #13
Thanks, and I you and yours. elleng Dec 2015 #14
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