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Democracyinkind

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27. Young minds are impressionable.
Wed Jan 16, 2013, 07:45 AM
Jan 2013

I was raised fairly liberal, but parents who didn't really care or believe in god, but nonetheless thought that it was the bourgeois thing to do to provide their kids with the full catholic program offered by the church, communion and all.

It's hard to say how that fucked me up. I'm an adult now, and don't consider these things allot. Yet, there's this tendency to be hung up about guilt and consider myself the root of all evil around me that I suspect is, (among other things) connected to the morality that was shoved down my throat by the good priests. It's hard to disentangle the different factors. But I can tell you for a fact that it is psychologically unhealthy to feel guilty about masturbating because you can't knock of the suspicion that some obscure sky being was watching you all along...

It's really hard to put the finger on. Yet I am convinced that in my case, some damage lingers on. Of course, this is no guarantee that I wouldn't suffer from the same issues without ever having come into contact with religion. It's just that they certainly upped the odds for it, which I find bad enough in itself.
Wow! This article completely hits home for me. I'm an ex-Catholic and the mother Mrs. Overall Jan 2013 #1
If a child is not given religious Jenoch Jan 2013 #2
I guess I'm just surprised that he was so adamant about it-- Mrs. Overall Jan 2013 #4
And they all said Brainstormy Jan 2013 #7
Well, the child was certainly exposed to a variety of religious thought at that UU church. MADem Jan 2013 #28
I think that minus the religious indoctrination most children recieve, most would turn out like your cleanhippie Jan 2013 #3
Your daughter is lucky Mrs. Overall Jan 2013 #5
Will you also teach her to mock religious people? nt humblebum Jan 2013 #11
Would you teach her that when 2 or more atheists gather Goblinmonger Jan 2013 #13
SNAP! cleanhippie Jan 2013 #14
I wouldn't, but that would be your department anyway. nt humblebum Jan 2013 #19
She apparently already got that on her own - by your definitions. eomer Jan 2013 #22
I actually agree with her parents right to let their daughter find her own way through life humblebum Jan 2013 #23
But the question I was trying to get at is: what is "mocking"? eomer Jan 2013 #25
Very nice. You have raised a good kid. tavalon Jan 2013 #8
My deepest regret Brainstormy Jan 2013 #6
That is the unfortunate thing, that so many take their parents religion without thought tavalon Jan 2013 #9
Bingo! What Is It the Jesuits Say? cer7711 Jan 2013 #10
the monte python god beard and crown etcetera. definitely. Phillip McCleod Jan 2013 #20
I thought the second paragraph was absurd ButterflyBlood Jan 2013 #12
So because YOUR experience was different, it is absurd? cleanhippie Jan 2013 #15
That I agree with ButterflyBlood Jan 2013 #17
OK, that makes sense as to why you don't see what the OP is writing. Goblinmonger Jan 2013 #18
It stuck with me. Goblinmonger Jan 2013 #16
In what way does it rear? Guilt of some type? ButterflyBlood Jan 2013 #21
Young minds are impressionable. Democracyinkind Jan 2013 #27
I don't know if I'm odd in shedding all that rather easily ButterflyBlood Jan 2013 #29
I was listening to Skeleton Christ EvilAL Jan 2013 #24
Well, I *do* begrudge having been raised Catholic. Kolesar Jan 2013 #26
Cherish such a smart discerning daughter! I wouldn't try to change a thing. AAO Jan 2013 #30
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