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soldierant

(7,661 posts)
62. I have never had breast surgery but
Sat Jul 22, 2023, 12:05 AM
Jul 2023

I did have an endometrioma (thankfully benign) and the worst of the pain was over for me by day 2.

The very worst was when I came out of the anesthesia and a nurse was holding a pillow over my incision and told me to cugh, and I did. That would have been unbearable if it had lasted more than a couple of seconds. After that, it wasn't that painful again until the latter parts of the first few periods the pain meds were supposed to last for. The surgeon had instructed them to give me the meds when I asked for them rather than waiting the full whatevr it was, and they didn't. But the second one lasted longer than the first, and by the third or fourth I was getting relief for the full time I was supposed to be getting relief.

Not saying it was a walk in the park, but I was a very good patient -
i wanted out of there, and was willing to work for it. I went around the ward seversl times every day, dragging my IV pole, and I requested and got a little gadget that one breathed into or out of - I forget which now - but it had a little ball in it that you were supposed to be able to lift to the top when you recovered full lung power, and I used it religiously also.

I still had to argue a bit to get out, because for the last few days I was running an allergic fever (and confusing the staff terribly because my blood tests were conclusive that there was no infection.) But I had had one before, shortly after I had gone through allergy testing and was quitting everything I was allergic to at once, so I knew what it was and was able to show that and to suggest it was fumes from their cleaning products to which I was reacting, and I got let out (and the fever went away.)

It sounds like you have a good attitude which will help you tremendously.

Hugs for you. Srkdqltr Jul 2023 #1
Thank you so much! ❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #14
Difficult cate94 Jul 2023 #2
Thank you so much! ❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #15
🙏 claudette Jul 2023 #3
❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #16
Best wishes! OAITW r.2.0 Jul 2023 #4
Thank you! ❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #17
Cancer sucks. murielm99 Jul 2023 #5
Thank you! ❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #18
Wow!!! I admire your outlook. Best vibes. LakeArenal Jul 2023 #6
Thank you! ❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #19
Take care. My lady friend went through this 2 years ago. Lumpectomy, Silent Type Jul 2023 #7
Thank you so much! It helps me to hear happy tales like that, thanks! ❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #20
Yes, one step at a time. We are here for you. I think you can beat it! LoisB Jul 2023 #8
Thank you! ❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #21
Hugs XanaDUer2 Jul 2023 #9
Thank you! ❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #22
Don't cry. You will survive this. Polly Hennessey Jul 2023 #10
Thank you! ❤️ actually haven't cried yet. Handling the news pretty well. LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #23
Hugs. Best wishes. viva la Jul 2023 #11
Thank you! ❤️ me too! LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #24
Hugs. Hoping your treatment gets results, Lib. ancianita Jul 2023 #12
Thank you so much ❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #25
Wishing you the best. Several friends have been through breast cancer, and I'm happy to say Lonestarblue Jul 2023 #13
Thank you so much! ❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #26
I had what sounds like your diagnosis. The doctor did a lumpectomy at the time. I hope the course Karadeniz Jul 2023 #27
Thank you so much! ❤️❤️❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #33
Did they tell you deRien Jul 2023 #28
The doctor said my masses were both fairly small, but said I would LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #34
One step at a time -- you will get thru this Hekate Jul 2023 #29
Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #35
Wishing you the best. Old Crank Jul 2023 #30
Thank you ❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #36
I had much the same feelings about my breast cancer & surgery. lark Jul 2023 #31
Oh I am sorry for what you went through but glad you beat the cancer LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #37
Sending hugs and strength gademocrat7 Jul 2023 #32
Thank you! ❤️❤️❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #38
Wishing you improving health, LiberalLoner! pazzyanne Jul 2023 #39
Thank you so much! ❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #67
We're all with you Wild blueberry Jul 2023 #40
Thank you so much! I am so grateful for all of you here! ❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #68
Yes. One step at a time and then one day at a time. Solly Mack Jul 2023 #41
Thank you so much! ❤️ yeah, having MS I totally get it about resting... LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #69
Holding you in our DU heart! cilla4progress Jul 2023 #42
Thank you so much! ❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #70
Sometimes they do chemo first now TexasBushwhacker Jul 2023 #43
Oh I hope you never need to use those wigs. 🙏 thank you. ❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #71
I sincerely hope you get the medical and emotional support needed to deal with this. Hang tough. Evolve Dammit Jul 2023 #44
Thank you so very much! ❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #72
One way or another it can be beaten. Don't allow the cancer to become you: be a person with ... marble falls Jul 2023 #45
I'm still a soldier deep down and I will fight this like one! ❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #73
You know how to do it! Embrace the suck and squeeze the hell out of it! marble falls Jul 2023 #79
👍👏🤣🤣🤣❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #82
You are a true Warrior Woman, LiberalLoner. You are a Force to be reckoned with. thatcrowwoman Jul 2023 #101
Thank you so so much! You are so wonderful! ❤️❤️❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #110
Sending positive vibes! forgotmylogin Jul 2023 #46
Thank you so much for giving me hope! ❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #74
My mother and my sil beat this disease. 58Sunliner Jul 2023 #47
Thank you so much for giving me hope! ❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #75
You are welcome! 58Sunliner Jul 2023 #107
Thank you so much! The weird thing is I have MS so my immune system is already in overdrive... LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #111
I have an immune disorder as well, 58Sunliner Jul 2023 #117
Oh, very good, I will try that! I need to see if I can find it on Amazon... LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #118
P.S. I'm sorry you have an immune system disorder...Epstein Barr causes such damage, hope they LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #119
Thanks. I was also diagnosed as having MS, but I have only had one episode. 58Sunliner Jul 2023 #120
Thank you! ❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #121
Hugs to you, LiberalLoner. thatcrowwoman Jul 2023 #48
Thank you so so much, you are the kindest person ever! ❤️❤️❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #76
Meet with your oncologist first! colorado_ufo Jul 2023 #49
Thank you so much! I am honestly very ignorant of the process so I can use advice. ❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #77
PM me, if I can help. Diagnosed 2018. colorado_ufo Jul 2023 #85
Thank you so much! I hope it will never return! ❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #87
Sending you all my good vibes. brer cat Jul 2023 #50
Thank you so much! ❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #78
I am an 11 year survivor. TNNurse Jul 2023 #51
Thank you so much for the advice and sharing your experience! ❤️❤️❤️gives me hope! ❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #80
3 women in my family are cancer survivors Javaman Jul 2023 #52
Thank you so much! ❤️❤️❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #98
Thinking of you and sending hugs. MLAA Jul 2023 #53
Thank you ❤️❤️❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #97
Everyone's Cancer is Different, but Shana Jul 2023 #54
Wow, I am glad you are okay now, thank you for sharing your story of hope! ❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #96
❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏 sueh Jul 2023 #55
❤️❤️❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #95
Holding you in light and love. Your DU family is here for you. Lean as hard as niyad Jul 2023 #56
Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #94
Best wishes stollen Jul 2023 #57
Thank you so much, and I wish you a long healthy life! ❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #93
I'm pulling for you. stage left Jul 2023 #58
Thank you! ❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #92
Best wishes. My mom had breast cancer, and she did beat it. PatrickforB Jul 2023 #59
I'm sorry for the loss of your Mom. 🙏 thank you so much for this kind message of hope! ❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #91
Sounds like you have lots of support here Deuxcents Jul 2023 #60
Thank you so very much! ❤️ yeah DU is awesome, really a family and I am so grateful!❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #90
It's scary as hell when it happens to you. 1WorldHope Jul 2023 #61
Thank you so so much for your kind words and for sharing your experience, it gives me hope. ❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #89
Hope is how we get through everyday sometimes. 1WorldHope Jul 2023 #105
❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #113
I have never had breast surgery but soldierant Jul 2023 #62
Oh my goodness that sounds like one heck of an experience! Thank you for sharing it, I wish you good LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #88
My surgeon mde it much easier by helping me prepare soldierant Jul 2023 #106
Thank you so much! Yeah I had an abdominal hysterectomy/oopherectomy at 50 LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #108
My scar was the other way - soldierant Jul 2023 #109
❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #112
Survival in breast cancer is at an all time high. My sister-in-law is... NNadir Jul 2023 #63
Thank you so very much! ❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #86
Peace and good health. Magoo48 Jul 2023 #64
Thank you so much....peace to you, too. ❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #81
My mom was diagnosed at age 77. She underwent surgery, radiation, & chemo. bullwinkle428 Jul 2023 #65
Thank you so much, and thank you for the hope! ❤️❤️❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #83
In the imortal words of the philisopher emoticon. "You Rock" Prairie_Seagull Jul 2023 #66
Thank you so much! ❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #84
what the posters said down below. AllaN01Bear Jul 2023 #99
❤️❤️❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #100
All the best to you as you go forward. pandr32 Jul 2023 #102
Thank you so much! ❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #114
Warm wishes to you! TdeV Jul 2023 #103
Thank you! ❤️ LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #115
You hang in there, my friend. calimary Jul 2023 #104
Thank you so so much! ❤️ last night my DH and I sat on our deck for a couple of hours and LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #116
Saw the biopsy pathology report. Grade 2, moderately aggressive. LiberalLoner Jul 2023 #122
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