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DebJ

(7,699 posts)
17. Actually one day my sister said my mother needed medication
Wed May 28, 2014, 01:58 AM
May 2014

because Mom is always talking about politics and religion and people in the news that she doesn't even know... this was just
after a big storm where an infant had died. To my NC sister, this is a sign of insanity or severe depression. I told her no, it is a different world view, where you care about other people. Mom has always been that way, and i am too. But to Cheryl, caring about strangers is a sign of mental illness. Seriously. That is exactly what she said.

She did take Mom to a doctor within her first week down there and got a prescription for an antidepressant. Mom took it a few times then refused, and we see no need for her to take that crap. But it would have made the guardianship request more feasible, you know? An anti-depressant is not going to cure the alternate isolation and badgering that my sister imposes upon my mother. I told Cheryl that, phrasing it more diplomatically. She told me that she studied psychology in nursing school and already knew everything she could ever need to know, and didn't want to hear anything from anyone about anything. She was a nurse for about 2 years 33 years ago, then quit when she became a JW. The little that we did talk, she was quoting things like from a nursing home manual (she worked at one for about 18 months). I said Cheryl, Mom doesn't need you to relate to her like a nurse. She needs you to relate to you like her DAUGHTER.

And of course, elleng May 2014 #1
It's all about the commission HeiressofBickworth May 2014 #3
Because Freedumb. It seems dumber the voter, dumber the representatives voted in to create Fred Sanders May 2014 #2
Not Just NC armed_and_liberal May 2014 #4
If you can't get liability insurance without a license, then how come in Pa DebJ May 2014 #5
Let your Asheboro sister work it out No Vested Interest May 2014 #10
Actually I think she would enjoy having them completely immobilized. DebJ May 2014 #18
Been there... armed_and_liberal May 2014 #32
The dealer should of let your dad know CC May 2014 #6
But that law makes no provision for people like my Aunt, who is wheelchair bound DebJ May 2014 #7
I agree that there should be CC May 2014 #9
Thanks. DebJ May 2014 #20
Cut the crap! Your sister CAN drive your parents to vote.... TheDebbieDee May 2014 #8
Did you post on the CC May 2014 #11
Thanks but see my last paragraph in the OP. n/t DebJ May 2014 #13
Oops CC May 2014 #14
Actually one day my sister said my mother needed medication DebJ May 2014 #17
I didn't see this until now. CC May 2014 #30
There will be someone to get your parents to the polls. No Vested Interest May 2014 #12
LOL how absurd I didn't think of that, since I've volunteered myself to do that. DebJ May 2014 #19
Good parents. As a senior myself I understand the beginnings of No Vested Interest May 2014 #33
No, actually, this is a valid reason for her because of the JW. DebJ May 2014 #16
i wish i could help. barbtries May 2014 #35
Check the state law regarding... JayhawkSD May 2014 #15
Thanks! n/t DebJ May 2014 #21
when i moved to NC i had to turn in my CA license barbtries May 2014 #22
thanks! a cousin of mine who worked there sent me an email late last night DebJ May 2014 #23
Plural probably means written and eye tests. JayhawkSD May 2014 #27
agree. barbtries May 2014 #28
"Hating the south" because of a North Carolina law... Nitram May 2014 #24
You are right. And my Dad is from New Orleans by the way. n/t DebJ May 2014 #25
Sounds like them governmentt hating southerners actually love government randys1 May 2014 #26
Dad can't keep his old DL more than 30 days. FBaggins May 2014 #29
Oh no I hope I don't have to parallel park at 65 or something. DebJ May 2014 #31
YEAH! NC changed their laws effective May 1 2014. He got his license yesterday. DebJ May 2014 #34
excellent. barbtries May 2014 #36
Hate I am let to this, but for future reference Lee-Lee Jun 2014 #37
Brilliant! Thanks. n/t DebJ Jun 2014 #38
I'm sorry your parents are having difficulties...but voting should not be a problem. mnhtnbb Jun 2014 #39
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