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SkyDaddy7

(6,045 posts)
79. Yeah, you were "lucky"
Fri Jul 1, 2016, 03:50 PM
Jul 2016

I guess, relatively speaking, huh...That she was able to retain who you were. But I know the pain you must have endured regardless. It is such a twisted disease for the loved ones to deal with. IMHO.

My grandfather "Grandpap" what we called him...I think he always remembered who his wife of 63yrs was, my grandmother, but for the last few waning months he did not know who his 3 daughters were & he had long forgot who any of us grand kids or great grand kids were.

There was a really surreal time for me just a couple months before he passed...I had suffered a spinal cord injury & had been in the hospital for 4 weeks & after that I was "in house" rehab for another 8 weeks. As soon as I got home we drove from Atlanta to Live Oak, Florida so I could see him before they put him in hospice care because he was going downhill fast & my Mom & grand mother could no longer care for him. He basically sat in a chair all day & at that time I could not walk so the first day I was there I laid on the couch in the same room with him & spent some time with him even though he had no clue who I was. It was so odd talking with him because his mind was literally in another time period...The 1930s. He worked for the WPA during the Great Depression & throughout WW2 driving a truck & he was telling me about job that was coming up & really wanted to know who i worked for & my work ID#???? Not sure what that was all about. However, he kept asking me who I was working with & I had no idea how to answer & I could see this was bothering him & he was getting suspicious of me or aggravated with me like I was a shady character or something. I guess back then they had a work ID number or something & talked about their jobs & when I couldn't produce this type of info I think he figured I was up to no good. LOL! It was kinda funny & of course upsetting at the same time. He was getting so visibly upset my grandmother had to calm him down & let him know everything was OK.

So, they got him up & took him to the kitchen got him something to eat & I dozed off on the couch...The next thing I know I woke up to my 86yr old grandfather on top of me punching me in the chest yelling at me "We don't your kind here!" I thought I was having a crazy nightmare & then everyone comes running into the room & pulls him off me because I could not do anything but try to hold his arms but even still he was STRONG especially for an 86yr old man in his condition!! He worked a 135 acre 100 head of cattle farm for decades until about 5yrs before he died. Plus, I was incredibly weak due to my SCI being high on my neck really weakened my arms & wiped out my legs. He was not hurting me as much as it scared he was going to hurt himself! He had fallen just days before & had a hairline fracture in his hip so my Uncle & brother had been helping him around the house while he held onto his walker. But somehow after they fed him some lunch & brought him back to his chair he got up on his own & made it the 10-15ft or so over to the couch where I was! CRAZY!

I didn't let it bother me but it really upset my Mom & my Aunts, his daughters...They knew how much he loved me & all his grand kids & it just broke their hearts to see him like that. I tried to comfort them by telling them that is not Grandpap so don't let it upset you...No one got hurt all is good. But you know how painful it must have been for them.






EXCELLENT! Faux pas Jun 2016 #1
The more studies that come out... SkyDaddy7 Jun 2016 #26
It absurdly crazy! Faux pas Jun 2016 #28
I'm so sorry... SkyDaddy7 Jun 2016 #41
I'm sorry for you too Faux pas Jul 2016 #75
Yeah, you were "lucky" SkyDaddy7 Jul 2016 #79
Yikes SkyDaddy7 Faux pas Jul 2016 #80
My mother did too lunatica Jun 2016 #56
I've had the same thoughts. Scary stuff. bettyellen Jul 2016 #70
We don't have it yet! Faux pas Jul 2016 #74
absurd? try CRIMINAL Locrian Jul 2016 #67
+1 nt. SkyDaddy7 Jul 2016 #78
Good news! Arkansas Granny Jun 2016 #2
In other news, Marijuana removes body from mind! nolabels Jun 2016 #29
Well, I think we've known that for a long time. Arkansas Granny Jun 2016 #31
Lol. This sounds very hopeful. Hortensis Jun 2016 #44
Hoping for anything that stops this horrible disease! Silver_Witch Jun 2016 #3
Big Pharma will find a way to test, develop some outrageously priced AllyCat Jun 2016 #10
"Stay stoned, stay sane", I always say. Kip Humphrey Jun 2016 #4
Important news. Whether THC is the ultimate weapon or not it will advance research. . nt Bernardo de La Paz Jun 2016 #5
The dirty, fucking hippies were right again! Scuba Jun 2016 #6
Yeah, we were. dixiegrrrrl Jun 2016 #7
Just smoke weed every day - smoke two joints! It works every time! Elmer S. E. Dump Jun 2016 #43
Take one drug that gives you poor memory to avoid a disease that gives you poor memory.. dixiegrrrrl Jun 2016 #60
Read up on mj. It prevents many diseases, cancer, heart disease, diabetes... Elmer S. E. Dump Jul 2016 #72
You are correct about using the right strain jumptheshadow Jul 2016 #71
We hippies KNOW that we were right all along. RoccoR5955 Jun 2016 #16
Well that explains Willie Nelson. nt bemildred Jun 2016 #8
Of course, we can't test that. AllyCat Jun 2016 #9
The Weed's legal in Oregon. Come test it here. 99th_Monkey Jun 2016 #21
I applaud the states trying to inject some reason into AllyCat Jun 2016 #33
Nevertheless, legalization is working. Warren DeMontague Jun 2016 #57
I have been testing it for over 50 years now. WHEN CRABS ROAR Jun 2016 #42
I applaud your willingness to put your beliefs to the test! :) Akamai Jul 2016 #68
Give me a fricking break! Elmer S. E. Dump Jun 2016 #45
Did you read my post or only the first line? AllyCat Jun 2016 #48
No, I read it and agree with it! I guess I just broke into a happy dance. Elmer S. E. Dump Jun 2016 #58
Oh! AllyCat Jul 2016 #63
THC is already proven better Rx for Alzheimer's than ANY currently available meds TheSarcastinator Jun 2016 #11
Wow, being a pot head might have more benefits other than good sleep! lark Jun 2016 #22
Well it paid ALL the bills from 1989-2014 chknltl Jun 2016 #32
Good thing it is illegal...well in some states. Rex Jun 2016 #12
Good thing the Democratic platform intends to keep it illegal in the face of MORE evidence! phazed0 Jun 2016 #13
Careful! We are not allowed to ask for reason AllyCat Jun 2016 #34
Been smoking daily since 1972 and in EXCELLENT health! Elmer S. E. Dump Jun 2016 #14
1964 for me................. n-t Ernesto Jun 2016 #17
Then you must REALLY be healthy!! Elmer S. E. Dump Jun 2016 #40
Another example of how the "war on drugs" is an abject failure. Moostache Jun 2016 #15
J147 is mentioned in the article.. J147 is a derivative of Curcumin True Earthling Jun 2016 #18
I HEART cumin! AllyCat Jun 2016 #35
curcumin is tumeric LWolf Jun 2016 #49
LOL! Yup! My mistake. AllyCat Jun 2016 #50
So do I. LWolf Jun 2016 #53
Well, all "curry powder" is, is a mix of spices, to include turmeric... MADem Jul 2016 #64
K & R nt Javaman Jun 2016 #19
Kicked and recommended. Uncle Joe Jun 2016 #20
K&R - The more we learn, the more idiotic we look making it illegal. LEGALIZE! nt 99th_Monkey Jun 2016 #23
If I didn't have to pass drug screens for work, I'd probably get high sometimes. Skeeter Barnes Jun 2016 #24
Just wow Politicub Jun 2016 #25
I'm glad someone is researching it IronLionZion Jun 2016 #27
K & R mountain grammy Jun 2016 #30
Really exciting news. Svafa Jun 2016 #36
The best university system in the word has to wait for approval from DEA to study weed. Eleanors38 Jun 2016 #37
Base on this story I will never get Alzheimers.... Playinghardball Jun 2016 #38
Me too! Elmer S. E. Dump Jun 2016 #47
KNR Lucinda Jun 2016 #39
"a progressive brain disorder that leads to memory loss" bluedigger Jun 2016 #46
Now if I could only remember… dhill926 Jun 2016 #51
Post removed Post removed Jun 2016 #52
"The faces of marijuana addicts" Warren DeMontague Jun 2016 #54
Thank god we are still sticking millions of people in prison for smoking it! Warren DeMontague Jun 2016 #55
Are we talking about prevention here? fbc Jun 2016 #59
The thing that kills me is that this info isn't new. PoliticalMalcontent Jun 2016 #61
I wish this had come out 15 years ago. raven mad Jun 2016 #62
Good news since I have alzheimers in my family. Lunabell Jul 2016 #65
Slow down folks, remember we can't take big bold progess. mrr303am Jul 2016 #66
Yes! Incrementalism is best. Health care just needs tweaking nt Arazi Jul 2016 #81
My dear sister was diagnosed at age 50 as having Alzheimers. She passed 10 years later. So, I only downeastdaniel Jul 2016 #69
Someone once said that if aspirin were discovered today it would probably be tblue37 Jul 2016 #73
Great-isolate the compound and use it... apcalc Jul 2016 #76
They have known this since 2006... Ghost in the Machine Jul 2016 #77
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