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heaven05

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159. you are saying

Mon May 23, 2016, 09:12 PM

May 2016

we must be logical when discussing rape threats, racist threats, right? Let me get this straight. You are saying that the one threatened must not be emotionally affected, but must maintain a Spocklike detachment and the only emotion that is allowed in these types of situations is the emotion of the one making the threats. Right? Phone threats do not engender logic. I have had them, I just told the coward to, "come on, get me". Logic that.

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I blame those of you who deny the influence of race and gender on the lives of women and POC [View all] La Lioness Priyanka May 2016 OP

What kind of chickenshit sends a message like that? cyberswede May 2016 #1

not just anonymous, but a dark net email address La Lioness Priyanka May 2016 #4

This message was self-deleted by its author cyberswede May 2016 #64

What if others were stalking online bullies and perverts? Jeffersons Ghost May 2016 #178

wow! How sick was that??/ yuiyoshida May 2016 #180

I've seen the one who wants to date you... Sorry you have to deal with that. Agschmid May 2016 #184

He has sent me messages yuiyoshida May 2016 #202

Chickenshit is too polite--he's a massive f-ing coward, one of those MADem May 2016 #93

Don't talk about white privilege eh? leftofcool May 2016 #2

lol La Lioness Priyanka May 2016 #5

I never trust anyone who harps about "reverse racism" or sufrommich May 2016 #3

me either. La Lioness Priyanka May 2016 #6

Unfortunately, it's not just men who feel this way passiveporcupine May 2016 #69

Sounds like your admirer has spent too much time defending the righteousness of bikini covers on a s LanternWaste May 2016 #7

it's not purely a gender thing. it's def also a race thing. La Lioness Priyanka May 2016 #8

The two seem to overlap to such a degree though. LanternWaste May 2016 #10

i'm sorry it happened too. I think people who minimize shit like this though, La Lioness Priyanka May 2016 #12

Yep, too many here minimize it the issue. Everyone who pretended it was okay to yell b*tch and bettyellen May 2016 #45

There are plenty of black dudes who diss women too. BlancheSplanchnik May 2016 #134

And da doors, lol. Nt seabeyond May 2016 #186

It's just a troll trying to get a rise out of you, looks like it worked. frankieallen May 2016 #9

do you want all your private information published online? La Lioness Priyanka May 2016 #11

how could this person possibly get your personal information from an anonymous internet discussion frankieallen May 2016 #14

Good question melman May 2016 #20

Actually it's a shitty fucking victim blaming question La Lioness Priyanka May 2016 #29

No it's not melman May 2016 #32

Irrelevance is hardly sensible. LanternWaste May 2016 #37

sensible? heaven05 May 2016 #156

There are many ways to obtain information from people online Spacedog1973 May 2016 #190

"how could this person possibly get your personal information" CompanyFirstSergeant May 2016 #153

you aren't serious heaven05 May 2016 #21

Are you blaming her? gollygee May 2016 #24

they had her private phone number passiveporcupine May 2016 #74

Sorry, I was just wondering how this unknown person on the internet had here personal email and frankieallen May 2016 #92

It's really not that difficult ... 1StrongBlackMan May 2016 #128

I don't think anyone is going to post a "how to" guide here on doxing techniques Bradical79 May 2016 #174

Easy to say when OU are not the one being directly threatened by someone who tblue37 May 2016 #126

Oh, the poor little delicate wilting "white" "men." raging moderate May 2016 #13

So should I blame duers for the email I got threatening to rape me to death cali May 2016 #15

Isn't her post addressing *people* (not DUers)? cyberswede May 2016 #16

Isn't her post addressing *people* (not DUers)? AlbertCat May 2016 #28

Well yay for you. Death threat guy sending you a pm La Lioness Priyanka May 2016 #23

you, wouldn't heaven05 May 2016 #27

I imagine you were angry about that gollygee May 2016 #30

Skinner banned him. cali May 2016 #54

Good! gollygee May 2016 #55

Yes. The denial of racism, sexism, misogyny is not a miniscule minority. boston bean May 2016 #56

Here?? No, it's not. polly7 May 2016 #65

Yeah it is. And the denial that it exists is indicative of the truthfulness of the OP. boston bean May 2016 #67

No. Racists and sexists are hidden and banned. Most bigotry is ... but not polly7 May 2016 #68

Hmmm hmmm. Thanks for making the point. boston bean May 2016 #70

How did I make 'the point'? polly7 May 2016 #71

Denial is a tricky thing. Give it some thought. boston bean May 2016 #72

LMAO. What did I deny? nt. polly7 May 2016 #73

Re read your posts. nt boston bean May 2016 #76

Nah. I know what I wrote. Don't have to reread. nt. polly7 May 2016 #77

I read them too. boston bean May 2016 #78

Awesome. Now try to think a little. nt. polly7 May 2016 #79

It was obvious. Took no longer than a moment to comprehend. boston bean May 2016 #82

I'm sure it did! lmao. nt. polly7 May 2016 #84

Right. But don't laugh at yourself. boston bean May 2016 #85

Oh grow up, for god's sake. nt. polly7 May 2016 #86

I am grown up. God might have helped might not have. boston bean May 2016 #89

I actually don't care who helped. polly7 May 2016 #90

I wasn't the one who brought it up. boston bean May 2016 #91

"Some is acceptable." BeanMusical May 2016 #210

Yeah ......... that's sickening. nt. polly7 May 2016 #212

Thats pretty awful. And a law breaking threat as well. nt 7962 May 2016 #60

Didn't a similar thing happen to Bravenat last fall? jalan48 May 2016 #17

Yes La Lioness Priyanka May 2016 #22

And dark net too? jalan48 May 2016 #47

Yeah a sigaint email address La Lioness Priyanka May 2016 #53

As a white man on DU, I really feel like I've been missing out. Orrex May 2016 #18

Your head is oddly shaped. Dr. Strange May 2016 #34

That's not my head, you freak. Orrex May 2016 #50

+1 FLPanhandle May 2016 #35

Seriously. Orrex May 2016 #51

Do you mercuryblues May 2016 #96

Go ahead--persecute me! Orrex May 2016 #100

LOL ... Apparently, it's all on DU ... 1StrongBlackMan May 2016 #131

Pssstt...you can't be oppressed when you are at the top of the social food chain. AgadorSparticus May 2016 #149

Alerting. Orrex May 2016 #154

😂😂😂 AgadorSparticus May 2016 #170

+1000 heaven05 May 2016 #157

Oh great. Another oppressor. Orrex May 2016 #189

lol. . luv ya Orrex!. . . annabanana May 2016 #196

yep heaven05 May 2016 #19

Now that we know who you blame..... AlbertCat May 2016 #25

lol. I know several du members who routinely deny racism La Lioness Priyanka May 2016 #26

I know several du members who routinely deny racism Or misogyny. AlbertCat May 2016 #44

Oh boy. leftofcool May 2016 #48

You just like to deny persons experiences of it. Close enough for me. boston bean May 2016 #57

"Never discuss race, religion or Frank Sinatra" 7962 May 2016 #59

but it fits here I guess AlbertCat May 2016 #105

The replies to your post are not the problem. Your post is the problem. Squinch May 2016 #137

+1 cyberswede May 2016 #160

So victims of racism and misogyny are emotional? Jackie Wilson Said May 2016 #80

Only if they're women. TwilightZone May 2016 #108

I think the person I was responding to was minimalizing the issue, which makes me willing to Jackie Wilson Said May 2016 #109

As a white guy... TwilightZone May 2016 #110

As a white gay guy.... AlbertCat May 2016 #121

Hey, as long as no one fired a gun, big deal, right? TwilightZone May 2016 #123

Hey, as long as no one fired a gun, big deal, right? AlbertCat May 2016 #124

No ... You missed the point ... 1StrongBlackMan May 2016 #135

Nope. AlbertCat May 2016 #138

How about ... 1StrongBlackMan May 2016 #140

Hey.... AlbertCat May 2016 #144

No ... I find it strange, and sad, ... 1StrongBlackMan May 2016 #155

+1000, you said what i was thinking! frankieallen May 2016 #206

Are you really sure you want to inject rational perspective bvf May 2016 #139

much less ask reasonable questions? AlbertCat May 2016 #145

so heaven05 May 2016 #162

Really? You didn't read the sexist posts insinuating he isn't a real man because he cries? Goblinmonger May 2016 #142

you are saying heaven05 May 2016 #159

Please refer to the thread about Malia going to Harvard. AgadorSparticus May 2016 #171

your diminishment of heaven05 May 2016 #33

your dimishment of someones pain AlbertCat May 2016 #103

So clueless and rude to minimize the stalking this DUer endured- shame on you. bettyellen May 2016 #38

As is broadcasting one's lack of character seemingly so cathartic as well LanternWaste May 2016 #41

There has been plenty of denial of white privilege and male privilege and objectification of women cui bono May 2016 #176

Post removed Post removed May 2016 #31

Okay, that's enough. Iggo May 2016 #39

No doubt this post has been alerted melman May 2016 #40

What specifically leads you to believe as such? LanternWaste May 2016 #42

I think anyone reacting like this passiveporcupine May 2016 #94

Really melman May 2016 #99

you know that old saying passiveporcupine May 2016 #104

geez heaven05 May 2016 #46

4chan LisaM May 2016 #36

This message was self-deleted by its author retrowire May 2016 #43

I don't have a strong enough rebuke My Good Babushka May 2016 #49

Exactly. Love your last line La Lioness Priyanka May 2016 #52

Sucks that happened to you. Lucky Luciano May 2016 #58

K&R! betsuni May 2016 #61

have there been any consequences for the person who sent this to you? barbtries May 2016 #62

The consequences are that it's now out on the main board for all to see Capt. Obvious May 2016 #63

Are there a lot of people on DU who do this? passiveporcupine May 2016 #66

Why doesn't this post have 80 recs on DU yet like the overtly racist "syndrome" post!?!?!?! uponit7771 May 2016 #75

LOL Capt. Obvious May 2016 #98

The recs on that one fell off ever so quickly. ismnotwasm May 2016 #122

The number of people who still kneejerk blame the victim... TwilightZone May 2016 #81

I would't compare this to Nevada passiveporcupine May 2016 #102

These are the shoes one can never walk a mile in. Amimnoch May 2016 #83

Well said PatSeg May 2016 #97

excellent post passiveporcupine May 2016 #111

very good post. Love the pointers. kwassa May 2016 #113

Thank you for this honest assessment! mcar May 2016 #119

+1 uponit7771 May 2016 #129

Thread winner! smirkymonkey May 2016 #130

IN groups and out groups. AtheistCrusader May 2016 #141

+100 Lady_Chat May 2016 #181

^^this^^ . . .n/t annabanana May 2016 #197

This message was self-deleted by its author rbrnmw May 2016 #87

Cockroaches flee from the light. Thanks for shining out. Hekate May 2016 #88

Unbelievable that a DU member would post KPN May 2016 #95

FYI - he's going after some others who've responded to this thread as well. PeaceNikki May 2016 #101

That, of course, is the downside. TwilightZone May 2016 #106

Shame on the Trump trolls. None of us should have to put up with this shit 99th_Monkey May 2016 #107

This is not necessarily a Trump troll passiveporcupine May 2016 #112

The OP called the perp a "troll" 99th_Monkey May 2016 #127

I agree, Bernie does not need supporters like this passiveporcupine May 2016 #132

I hope this lowlife is found mcar May 2016 #114

Thank you for sharing your experience,La Lioness Priyanka . Scruffy Rumbler May 2016 #115

I am sorry this happened to you nadinbrzezinski May 2016 #116

On a related note, I hope they put privacy protections on our contact info IronLionZion May 2016 #117

K&R ismnotwasm May 2016 #118

Although white fragility is all the rage in conservative spaces... MrScorpio May 2016 #120

these trolls are amazing! did you report this to the admins? Demonaut May 2016 #125

They are such cowards. Ilsa May 2016 #133

white privilege is a numbers issue. the_sly_pig May 2016 #136

It's not just numbers, it's also power and status La Lioness Priyanka May 2016 #143

Past time to ask the admins to move to https (secure socket layers) newthinking May 2016 #146

maybe rush limbaugh, definitely a fan of his, it's a certainot May 2016 #147

Awful, LLP. brer cat May 2016 #148

Me too bravenak May 2016 #150

Fymn? What is that? La Lioness Priyanka May 2016 #165

A repeat troll bravenak May 2016 #166

Ugh. La Lioness Priyanka May 2016 #167

I know. bravenak May 2016 #168

And They're Still Here? ProfessorGAC May 2016 #203

They come back under new names constantly bravenak May 2016 #207

Despicable. Just terribly sad. I am so so sorry LLP. riderinthestorm May 2016 #151

Let's see if.... CompanyFirstSergeant May 2016 #152

Wow! malaise May 2016 #158

Jesus Dorian Gray May 2016 #161

Well said. NCTraveler May 2016 #163

K... TipTok May 2016 #164

Mr. Scorpio just posted this in another thread passiveporcupine May 2016 #169

I blame those who DON'T DEFEND the Japanese for the 20 death threats I got here. Bonobo May 2016 #172

You support your candidate well. Nt msanthrope May 2016 #192

Sorry if I offended you, sir. nt Bonobo May 2016 #193

My gender is in my username. Please,keep mansplaining to the OP. Nt msanthrope May 2016 #195

You're misanthropic, I get it. nt Bonobo May 2016 #198

"because they're no longer anonymous either" tenderfoot May 2016 #173

Those who agree with 90% of Native Americans? pintobean May 2016 #205

k/r fishwax May 2016 #175

This message was self-deleted by its author kaleckim May 2016 #177

And you deny that the War on Some Drugs has much harsher effects on PoC than on white people? eridani May 2016 #179

Yes, so clearly I should be stalked about it La Lioness Priyanka May 2016 #183

Pfffftttttt! BrainDrain May 2016 #182

Your name is very, very well chosen. Squinch May 2016 #208

if that is the best you got..... BrainDrain May 2016 #211

Fuck that privileged, entitled white man. Nt seabeyond May 2016 #185

He's probably the same troll who threatened my daughter last week....jury let it stand. msanthrope May 2016 #187

Is he a Bernie supporter, because this one is La Lioness Priyanka May 2016 #188

Yes. When I started a thread about the divisive nature of the primaries, and the threats, msanthrope May 2016 #191

Don't worry there are a lot of people being banned on DU fasttense May 2016 #200

That's awful. kcr May 2016 #194

"Post-racial" my ass! Nitram May 2016 #199

It's creepy that you're being stalked. That's unacceptable and I encourage you to report this scum Bucky May 2016 #201

Huh. He's making an awfully big stink over something that he says there is "no such thing." Butterbean May 2016 #204

k+r Blue_Tires May 2016 #209