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romantico

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Sun May 27, 2012, 02:52 PM May 2012

A Friends Confrontation at a Family Gathering About Supporting Romney. It Gets UGLY! [View all]

Sorry this post is so long.

A close friend of mine told me this story and I just had to share. Is it fair to call this person a typical Romney supporter?

A friend of mine had a small family get together yesterday and her Aunts house. Most her family is Republican but usually never talks politics. Well, all but one. A cousin and her husband just can not resist to tell everyone no matter where they go that they are proud Tea Party supporters. They can not go a minute without telling the crowd or anyone who is within ear shot how much they HATE Obama.My friend and her boyfriend have been together now for about 6 years and some in the family made it clear they feel she should be married or at least engaged. You see, my friend lives with her boyfriend and the family see this is them living in sin. This is very important because it comes up this weekend.So, my friend goes on to tell the story:

'Back in January we celebrated my Uncle's 75th Birthday and this cousin of mine talked about how much she and her husband supported Michelle Bachman and Rick Perry. Those were the two they supported and talked about how God Awful Mitt Romney was. They hated the fact that he was a Massachusetts Governor and his health plan was basically Obamacare. The things they said about Mitt were just terrible. They expressed their hate towards him the same as they do with Obama.

In March we got together again this time for my grandparent's 55th anniversary. This time she was throwing her support towards Rick Santorum. They liked Newt but didn't think he could win. They thought Mitt was shameless the way his big money trashed Newt. She went off again about how dishonest and mean Mitt Romney was and swore they would not vote or support such filth. Forget they she and her husband had supported Michelle Bachman and Rick Perry. No, pretend that never even happened. Now they were one hundred percent behind Rick Santorum and he was the ONLY ONE who could beat Obama. They tried to make people think they were behind Santorum all along. The way they trashed Romney was just over the top.

So, now flash forward to this past Saturday. Memorial Day weekend. Nice little family get together. My boyfriend and I were there not even 5 minutes when my cousin and her husband came over and started in. They spoke about how much they adore Mitt Romney and how he is going to beat Obama in November. I could not keep quiet. I reminded her about how much she hated Mitt and this cousin went off on me. She said that was not true. She claimed she supported Mitt a year ago and he has been the one they supported all along. She said she liked Bachman, Gingrich, Perry, and Santorum, but they were never strong enough to beat Obama. My boyfriend even stepped in and said no, he recalled just a couple months ago how much they both hated Romney. This was really pissing them both off. Both of them raised their voices and were getting visibly angry. My Mom came over,asked what the trouble was and I told her. She told me to stop talking politics and try and get them to calm down. My boyfriend just walked away and I changed the subject. They just bought a new house and I started asking them about the house and that seemed to work for a while. Although after about 20 minutes she went off on me about how I am a typical Obama supporter who has to lie. She repeated the claim they she and her hubby have supported Romney since day one. What pissed her off was she then went around telling people how her and boyfriend were lying about her. She said she was secretly campaigning for Obama here at a family event by lying about them not supporting Romney when they said they did.

Then she began asking them when they were going to get married. She reminded everyone that they were living in sin. She asked her boyfriend if he really loved her cousin and then began asking questions trying to hint to everyone that he might be gay. She began asking us questions that were personal, cruel, and inappropriate.Then she came back to bashing Obama and telling everyone how she was lying claiming that she said all these terrible things about Romney. She said they were lies and claimed she never said a bad word about Romney. She was not letting up and no one in the family was asking her to stop or coming to our defense.So, after about 40 minutes,we left. When we left no one really said good bye or acted like they wanted us to stay. To me and my boyfriend it was clear why we were leaving so early.

We went out to eat and then to a movie. I got over it pretty fast thanks to my boyfriend. He knew how to take my mind off things. Still, I was angry and pissed. I felt like I should have said more in my defense and called out some of the lies she was saying about Obama and the Democrats. Then I thought of something.

Back in January and March, my boyfriend took his camera and shot the 75th Birthday of my Uncle and the 55th anniversary of my grandparents. It took no time to find, on both occasions we found footage of both my cousin and her husband BASHING Romney like you would never believe. The video does not lie. You can clearly see her and her husband. You can clearly hear them. I don't remember this but at one point she even made a clear death threat. We counted on both occasions and she praised Bachman and Perry and said ONE OF THOSE TWO WERE GOING TO BE THE NOMINEE. Then she bashed Romney something awful. Then, we have on tape her saying SANTORUM WILL BE THE NOMINEE, THERE IS JUST NO DOUBT ABOUT IT. She then bashed Romney something awful including a very disgusting slur towards him that even I was offended by. Between the two, we had 17 minutes of her bashing Romney.

Now, I want to upload it and send it to EVERYONE on Facebook and who was there Saturday. My boyfriend says if I do, I can NEVER go to another family gathering again. Don't know what to do.'

That's her story. I can't tell her what to do but I hope she does. She said she will send it to me if she does and if so I will post it here.

So, is this a typical Romney supporter or what?

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You're very patient XanaDUer May 2012 #1
I'd just go see another movie. hedgehog May 2012 #2
IDK about a "Romney supporter,"...... Wounded Bear May 2012 #3
I've found it easier to avoid my tea party cousins Siwsan May 2012 #4
Reminder romantico May 2012 #8
she should sent it to her cousin privately RainDog May 2012 #29
Posting the video will not make any difference OutNow May 2012 #5
"Taken out of context" is now the classic dodge. Frank Cannon May 2012 #53
I think she should do it. sibelian May 2012 #6
I would send it only because no one supported you marlakay May 2012 #7
Your next to last sentence is the difference. Frustratedlady May 2012 #18
I don't know if they are "typical" anything but dana_b May 2012 #9
If your friend's family won't back her after the video offers indisputable proof of the correctness coalition_unwilling May 2012 #10
Sadly agree. The friend gets 'called out' for talking politics and it would be obvious jp11 May 2012 #24
Not Sure I Could Stop Myself From Sending dballance May 2012 #11
You will never reason with these people. They would say you doctor the film. They all southernyankeebelle May 2012 #12
How about she just sends it to her obnoxious cousin rufus dog May 2012 #13
That's not a bad suggestion, I would add this though... Spazito May 2012 #15
Bingo. Gidney N Cloyd May 2012 #17
Possible rufus dog May 2012 #31
I guess it depends what the real issue is, imo... Spazito May 2012 #32
Agree leftynyc May 2012 #40
If this were a poll, Grey May 2012 #14
The quotation you have in mind Jim Lane May 2012 #41
An email, stating that video will be shown, if EVER again, the fools call her a liar. WingDinger May 2012 #16
Not a typical Rmoney supporter but certainly a typical teabagger Warpy May 2012 #19
I would post it so THEY know other family members can see it .... Trajan May 2012 #20
Don't do it . You WILL regret it n/t Narkos May 2012 #21
I'm not sure what you will really accomplish except revenge. CTyankee May 2012 #22
Upload it to youtube and go to the next family gathering wearing an Obama t-shirt. lumberjack_jeff May 2012 #23
I prefer your approach .... I think most of these posts show that Democrats have no spine .... Trajan May 2012 #26
Absolutely agree... MelungeonWoman May 2012 #56
That's what I was thinking treestar May 2012 #61
I'm very sorry for your friend's experience. Habibi May 2012 #25
It would be impossible for me not to send it to cousin with a note LiberalAndProud May 2012 #27
I would post it on Youtube and email everyone of them a link to it... L0oniX May 2012 #28
Offer to send a copy of the video to the Romney campaign since it kiranon May 2012 #30
Here's an alternative solution. lumberjack_jeff May 2012 #33
Start a discussion about the incident on Facebook. pa28 May 2012 #34
She should do what feels right to her. ljm2002 May 2012 #35
Probably not worth starting a major family fight over. Kaleva May 2012 #36
If it were me TeamPooka May 2012 #37
DO IT! The Doctor. May 2012 #38
Maybe not a typical Romney supporter but definitely a typical Obama hater lunatica May 2012 #39
My guess? She'll just deny having ever called you a liar Nevernose May 2012 #42
The best advice I can give is to dinopipie May 2012 #43
I would talk to the host of the gatherings peacefreak May 2012 #44
That's one heck of a story!!! greytdemocrat May 2012 #45
Please find a good continuity editor. GeorgeGist May 2012 #46
She didn't want to admit that she was talking about herself. alphafemale May 2012 #49
Tell your friend: Next time YOU host the party. Be sure to show home movies... davsand May 2012 #47
Post It! alphafemale May 2012 #48
i hate to say this -- but to me -- your friend isn't very important to her family. xchrom May 2012 #50
I agree. The mom needs to stand up for this couple. Riley18 May 2012 #67
Send it. 99Forever May 2012 #51
POST THE VID AT ONCE, but first, send it *just* to them, and let them see for themselves... LaydeeBug May 2012 #52
Yup.......... Darth_Kitten May 2012 #54
Exactly the way to do it. GoneOffShore May 2012 #62
She should post the incrimminating video. shcrane71 May 2012 #55
Do it for you bawieland May 2012 #57
The family is dysfunctional and this episode is just a symptom of it. Kaleva May 2012 #58
Send the stuff, they are the ones who made you feel uncomfortable at the family event... WCGreen May 2012 #59
Is there some chance it is the tea partier who won't go to family reunions again? treestar May 2012 #60
Those people are mentally damaged... and-justice-for-all May 2012 #63
They are just like their newfound candidate rox63 May 2012 #64
I think the family is perfectly aware of what kind of person she is renate May 2012 #65
I'd say it depends on a lot of factors. antigone382 May 2012 #66
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