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Lobo27

(753 posts)
24. Sometimes people refuse to change...
Fri Jun 19, 2015, 04:58 PM
Jun 2015

Last edited Sat Jun 20, 2015, 12:18 AM - Edit history (2)

I'll use myself as an example, I'm half white and half Mexican. My mother comes from the south, and as result most of her family is from the south. When she married my father she was practically disowned by her parents. Luckily her siblings were not like her parents and are part of our family.

I'm 30 now and I still remember when she used to cry at night and my dad was consoling her. I'll never forget his words, as long as my children and I love you its all you need.

To this day in my life I have only ever met my grandmother 3 times and those times she never called me by name, Pedro. I was simply kid. One of those meetings was during the holidays, my siblings and I received nothing, but my cousins did infront of us.

As time passed my grandfather has slowly come around to the point that came to the birth of his first great grandchild. But my grandmother refuses, which is fine, it is her loss to remain bitter.

They don't even pretend anymore mcar Jun 2015 #1
They sure don't. SoapBox Jun 2015 #19
On the upside. ZX86 Jun 2015 #2
CORRECT Skittles Jun 2015 #7
it is nice they are being so open about their bigotry. Better than trying to hide it and pretend uppityperson Jun 2015 #3
Yes. I welcome their openness. Let's see how that plays MineralMan Jun 2015 #5
Ever since President Obama was elected they have been coming out from under their rocks. redstatebluegirl Jun 2015 #4
I mentioned the Confederacy, not the states. MineralMan Jun 2015 #8
Agreed, sorry for the confusion. redstatebluegirl Jun 2015 #9
Thanks for clearing that up, Mineral Man... kentuck Jun 2015 #16
There are Confederate Battle Flag wearing idiots all over Ohio. Enthusiast Jun 2015 #21
No we're not. Fawke Em Jun 2015 #10
it IS "part of who they are" Skittles Jun 2015 #6
Thank you MM. Very well said. jwirr Jun 2015 #11
My pleasure. MineralMan Jun 2015 #12
The rest of the US also has a vile, racist, slave-owning heritage oberliner Jun 2015 #13
MM, you've captured my feelings so perfectly in your series of OPs on this horrific event NRaleighLiberal Jun 2015 #14
Thanks. I'm glad I was able to do that. MineralMan Jun 2015 #25
Sickeningly enough, I see that license plate on some pickup trucks up here in Massachusetts. Flatulo Jun 2015 #15
You're on a roll, my friend Hekate Jun 2015 #17
The Confederate Constitution was racist to the core malaise Jun 2015 #18
And yet, many attempt to deny what it was about. MineralMan Jun 2015 #26
Well even the racist scumbag who delivered the speech attempted malaise Jun 2015 #30
Republicans have been pandering to that heritage for half a century now YoungDemCA Jun 2015 #20
the cowardice of politicians KT2000 Jun 2015 #22
A celebration of crimes against humanity. moondust Jun 2015 #23
Sometimes people refuse to change... Lobo27 Jun 2015 #24
That is so incredibly sad. MineralMan Jun 2015 #27
Yeah, I've known a few people like that and not just in Dixie Warpy Jun 2015 #29
Oh, but having slaves do all the dirty work meant white southerners of means Warpy Jun 2015 #28
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