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Herbalicious

(17 posts)
29. Thank you!
Mon Apr 16, 2012, 12:06 PM
Apr 2012

I wonder the same thing when people make harsh comments. I've been there when the daughter is crying out. She cannot speak or communicate with words. She's half blind from knocking her head. She's crippled over in pain and cannot walk well (or much) because a tendon issue in her leg.

Her knees are swollen so large from walking around on her knees. It pains me just to see it. She cannot communicate when she's hungry, thirsty, soiled herself, uncomfortable, in pain, so she cries/wails out to communicate. It's very unpleasant and uncomfortable to witness. It breaks my heart.

Everyone wants to get away from her because it's so uncomfortable to experience but this family cannot just walk away from her. If they lose this home, they have no where else to go. She cannot get anyone to rent to her once they find out about the daughter. It's illegal to discriminate but that doesn't mean it doesn't happen. And other places don't have the ramps and accessibility that this home has. The Americans with disabilities Act is supposed to insure she has access everywhere but that doesn't mean she does.

We took her to city hall and the brother was going to remove the sister because she was crying but I told him to leave her there in front of all the council members, they have to experience what it's like for a 2 minute speech. They are lucky the daughter can leave after the mother speaks but the mother cannot leave her daughter. They deal with this 24 hours a day. She's been humiliated in public because of it. They used to live in an apartment when the daughter was little but they got grief because the baby was so fussy and loud.

They have to feed her and give her stuff to drink. They have to change her diapers. They have to escort her around. They have to tend to her 24 hours a day 7 days a week.

And I think her medical condition is very painful one. I suffer chronic pain so I feel for her in that regard. I think her muscles get overly tense and that's why she's twisted in pain so much and that makes her cry out too.

But she can hear, so when she comes up to me or cries out. I try to talk to her and call her by her name and just try reassure her because I know she can hear me.

Kick !!! WillyT Apr 2012 #1
Whoa $457,000 in loans? dkf Apr 2012 #2
Just Curious... Why Do You Ask THAT Question ??? WillyT Apr 2012 #3
Huh? I'm just wondering how she does so much better than I do that she can afford a mortgage like dkf Apr 2012 #5
... WillyT Apr 2012 #6
You forgot this part... "After she fell behind on her payments" dkf Apr 2012 #7
And You Forgot This Part... Basic Human Decency... WillyT Apr 2012 #11
Speaking as someone who needs to come up with way more than this woman to pay for dkf Apr 2012 #18
Jesus... So... It's A Battle About Who Has It Worse ??? - A Relative With Dementia Versus A... WillyT Apr 2012 #19
I agree that the modification process is nothing but a mess. dkf Apr 2012 #20
your lack of empathy is creepy fascisthunter Apr 2012 #42
Seriously! Herbalicious Apr 2012 #47
Sounds like she hired hacks that screwed things up. dkf Apr 2012 #10
Do You Hear Yourself ??? WillyT Apr 2012 #14
We bailed them out and they paid us back. dkf Apr 2012 #17
Proof of fraud... Herbalicious Apr 2012 #38
That was Countrywide. dkf Apr 2012 #51
No, all the TARP debt *hasn't* been paid back, let alone the no-interest loans through the Fed. HiPointDem Apr 2012 #53
Thank you! Herbalicious Apr 2012 #29
Thank you! Herbalicious Apr 2012 #49
You Are Quite Welcome !!! WillyT Apr 2012 #54
Yes! Herbalicious Apr 2012 #48
"You might wonder why Bank of America found it smarter to sell at a loss" KamaAina Apr 2012 #13
I'm confused Herbalicious Apr 2012 #27
B of A KamaAina Apr 2012 #33
Oh BofA? Herbalicious Apr 2012 #37
yes, interesting in light of today's article about one-percenters buying up foreclosed properties HiPointDem Apr 2012 #36
They want to make us a nation of renters (land slaves) Herbalicious Apr 2012 #39
which is kind of what a lot of europe already is. HiPointDem Apr 2012 #45
Which is kinda... Herbalicious Apr 2012 #50
So some people should never be foreclosed on????? Really? Who will... Logical Apr 2012 #35
Banks make huge profits off of fraudulent foreclosures... Herbalicious Apr 2012 #40
I have my doubts about this. nt Snake Alchemist Apr 2012 #52
BofA made millions off this foreclosure... Herbalicious Apr 2012 #9
She bought the place for $125,000. Codeine Apr 2012 #4
Where did you get that info? Herbalicious Apr 2012 #8
One should NEVER have to refi to pay for access modifications! KamaAina Apr 2012 #12
We're looking into services Herbalicious Apr 2012 #25
Get in touch with your local Independent Living Center KamaAina Apr 2012 #34
What if the daughter cannot live independently Herbalicious Apr 2012 #41
ILCs are nonprofits that serve all people with disabilities KamaAina Apr 2012 #46
The truth is many banks are too large to be flexible enough to handle modifications. dkf Apr 2012 #15
That information is in the comments section of the article sammytko Apr 2012 #21
limited photos Herbalicious Apr 2012 #23
Bank of America = Zombie Demon Spawn Bank nt steve2470 Apr 2012 #16
All power to those helping Dirma and Ingrid keep her home. Fire Walk With Me Apr 2012 #22
I appreciate your comment Herbalicious Apr 2012 #24
People need to understand the banks are doing a planned land grab. Fire Walk With Me Apr 2012 #28
Notice they're bulk sales - individual families need not apply. haele Apr 2012 #30
Yep, and Wall Street are some of the eager investors, big surprise: Fire Walk With Me Apr 2012 #32
The Democratic Socialist policy option of nationalizing banks is coalition_unwilling Apr 2012 #26
damn right it is.... it's extreme shit like this that makes me all for it! fascisthunter Apr 2012 #44
What a terrible situation, and it's not that uncommon. MineralMan Apr 2012 #31
We hope to keep this family in their home Herbalicious Apr 2012 #43
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