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shaayecanaan

(6,068 posts)
26. You're dead right...
Wed Oct 1, 2014, 01:32 AM
Oct 2014

It is a bit disingenuous for sex workers to complain about the stigma but delight in the monetary rewards - the two go hand in hand. I think the returns would tank if the stigma surrounding the job disappeared, but still I imagine there would be reasonable opportunities at the high end of the market. It seems to me a job that could be done either quite poorly or quite well. There would probably still be a risk premium as well, at least in relation to disease if not violence.

I am not sure where social stigma ends and biology begins. Even without the stigma it seems to me that female sex has a commodity value whereas male sex does not. And jobs involving physical proximity - such as waxing or massage - tend to attract a premium even though there is no stigma or sex involved. Perhaps there is some innate squeamishness associated with physical contact that would nevertheless keep a floor on the price.

Prostitution, or something like it, has been observed in chimps. Subdominant males can trade meat for sex, although it's not quite prostitution as its a bit more of a long term thing - the male chimp will continue providing meat after the act is over, in anticipation that the female will be receptive again when she is next fertile. I'm not sure if that resembles prostitution, or marriage or maybe something in between, enjo kosai or friends with benefits perhaps. But even so, it's the male that pays the female for sex and not the other way around.

I knew a girl that was a colonic hydrotherapist. Apparently that involved sticking a hose up old peoples arses and flushing the shit out of them. She was tempted to become an erotic masseuse because it paid better and it couldn't be as gross as having to deal with old peoples shit. When you look at it that way, it becomes a value proposition.

Insightful. Feral Child Sep 2014 #1
It covers a lot of angles here Blue_Adept Sep 2014 #3
Yes, it's quite well written. Feral Child Sep 2014 #11
That's a very interesting perspective, thanks for sharing IronLionZion Sep 2014 #2
Yup. Android3.14 Sep 2014 #4
Valid and helpful. Brickbat Sep 2014 #5
Pretty good for the issue of covers. aikoaiko Sep 2014 #6
No one topic can be covered in its entirety of course Blue_Adept Sep 2014 #21
I agree. aikoaiko Sep 2014 #22
If you live near a strip club, elderly Jewish men will knock on your door? Bad Thoughts Sep 2014 #7
Do you assign religions to all characters in a comic strip? FSogol Sep 2014 #9
No, I examine messaging for ethnic stereotypes Bad Thoughts Sep 2014 #12
Balding equals Jewish? FSogol Sep 2014 #14
I think it's the way the character is speaking sir pball Sep 2014 #15
it would be better if we could ban it... shaayecanaan Sep 2014 #8
It is interesting kcr Sep 2014 #10
Capitalism makes a commodity out of everything... shaayecanaan Sep 2014 #16
You are doing the same thing the author is doing. kcr Sep 2014 #17
I don't think what would happen is predictable if the stigma for sex work was to vanish. seaglass Sep 2014 #19
You're dead right... shaayecanaan Oct 2014 #26
Nice insinuations. Starry Messenger Sep 2014 #23
So what about us, and I do mean us, (now ex-) male sex workers? genwah Sep 2014 #20
It goes back to basic human rights titaniumsalute Sep 2014 #13
i stopped reading about 40%. saw intresting dichotomy. seabeyond Sep 2014 #18
great stuff- most women get this bullshit from men at some point- even here bettyellen Sep 2014 #24
My partner is a former sex worker Prophet 451 Sep 2014 #25
A friend of mine did that for a while. She also did phone psychic work for a while. LeftyMom Oct 2014 #27
Same here Prophet 451 Oct 2014 #28
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