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In reply to the discussion: This killer that went on a rampage shooting [View all]Squinch
(52,122 posts)"at fault." You don't seem to be seeing that the OP that you are defending is the one that pointed fingers in absurd directions. At least we can agree on the fact that the fault lies with no one other than the shooter.
But once again you are going off into crazy town when you say that this has anything to do with understanding sexual dynamics.
First of all, the only one telling men that their feelings are not to be discussed are other men. So if you don't like that, then stop it.
Second of all, this slaughter has nothing to do with men being told that their feelings are not to be discussed. The idea that "big boys don't cry" is not the cause of this slaughter. This has nothing to do with listening to men when they cry.
Honestly, your position of "Oh, ye poor weeping and unheard men! If only we listened to you none of this would have happened!" is bizarre. In taking that position, you also DO lay the fault for the slaughter at the feet of everyone but the shooter himself.
And yes, yes, I get it. You are above it all and just want to understand this poor misguided soul.