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DebJ

(7,699 posts)
27. Do any of your siblings have residence somewhere
Wed Jan 15, 2014, 02:33 AM
Jan 2014

in an area where employment opportunities might be better or improving, and
could you crash with them awhile and pursue that?

From your description, it sounds like you are in a very rural area. Reminded me
of my parent's retirement place in WV. The 'good' jobs there were at the
chicken-plucking/processing plant for like 25 cents an hour above minimum wage.
That's how it was when they retired there 25 years ago. That's how it is today,
and it's never going to get better up there.

I'd like to slap your boss in the face. I worked for quite a number of jerks over my
40 years of working life. About one in three were hideous like this guy, but it seems
most of those were coming one after another in the later years. In the earlier years,
employees were mostly treated with respect (and pay and benefits)...and certainly
so to their faces. I was a boss with a crew of up to 50 people working for me.
They worked their tails off for me because they knew I genuinely respected and
cared for them as individuals. It's not rocket science....it's just being a decent
person and treating people as you'd want to be treated. So that gave me even
less respect for the jerks. No matter how crappy MY current boss might have been,
that only made me MORE determined to insure I never rolled the crap downhill...
I wouldn't lower myself to their behaviors. I hate jerks.

Just another ordinary day in paradise. [View all] davidthegnome Jan 2014 OP
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Thank you for sharing... polichick Jan 2014 #3
+1 PotatoChip Jan 2014 #8
I hope I have enough strength... davidthegnome Jan 2014 #11
Haven't you heard? The economy has RECOVERED!!!1 PassingFair Jan 2014 #14
This message was self-deleted by its author polichick Jan 2014 #17
I wish I had some answers for you or some good advice. Is there any way japple Jan 2014 #4
There is limited help available. davidthegnome Jan 2014 #6
Have you applied for insurance through the Affordable Care Act? I don't know much japple Jan 2014 #7
I have. davidthegnome Jan 2014 #10
I have always been told that if you send even like $5 a month on a debt DebJ Jan 2014 #26
That will probably be my solution, in the end. davidthegnome Jan 2014 #31
I don't have any real advice on getting a better job, ohheckyeah Jan 2014 #36
Have you considered instead of LukeFL Jan 2014 #34
this is why poverty is "grinding" G_j Jan 2014 #5
No, they have no understanding marions ghost Jan 2014 #30
... progressoid Jan 2014 #9
I feel your story is all to common. zeemike Jan 2014 #12
Hope something changes for you soon. EC Jan 2014 #13
You are definitely not alone. blur256 Jan 2014 #15
With a masters degree... davidthegnome Jan 2014 #18
This is part of the reason I love reading so much. davidthegnome Jan 2014 #24
We have a lot in common blur256 Jan 2014 #25
You put it quite well, more people than you are probably aware Stargazer99 Jan 2014 #16
i'm so sorry to hear about your daughter shireen Jan 2014 #38
You don't have to believe in God to seek spiritual help. freedom fighter jh Jan 2014 #19
I am sorry. oldandhappy Jan 2014 #20
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Kicking for the evening crowd. japple Jan 2014 #22
You are young and blessed to have family roody Jan 2014 #23
Do any of your siblings have residence somewhere DebJ Jan 2014 #27
In addition to owning the hotels.. davidthegnome Jan 2014 #32
Karma will give the slap he needs one day. DebJ Jan 2014 #43
David, I wish you could find or make work that is not connected... grasswire Jan 2014 #28
I hope you're right. davidthegnome Jan 2014 #33
you know, it's not easy to make a living as a writer grasswire Jan 2014 #39
Thanks for helping with your words of wisdom - I may come looking someday also. erronis Jan 2014 #41
Love your response LukeFL Jan 2014 #35
Thanks for sharing. I wish I had words of wisdom to offer, but I don't. sinkingfeeling Jan 2014 #29
rec Demo_Chris Jan 2014 #37
I wish you the best, you are part of a huge group. Paper Roses Jan 2014 #40
yes, davidthegnome, know this - hopemountain Jan 2014 #42
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