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In reply to the discussion: Sure has been an increase of guys picking fights with DU women. [View all]redqueen
(115,113 posts)394. Wow, so exited porn stars who talk about having been raped are all liars trying to make more money?
Is that what you think?
Was my implication not clear enough last time? I know men are victims.
I'll say it even slower this time. I. have. not. seen. them. coming.forward. in. the. same. numbers. as. women. to. talk. about. having. been. abused. and. raped.
So are you saying that only women are liars and men are all honest and would never besmirch the awesome porn industry to try to make a buck. (See, I can play that game too.)
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the men that are particpating int he behavior that was brought up. see how easy that is. oh wait..
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#7
That, or (and I find this more likely), someone in the OP's referenced demographic just looking to b
LanternWaste
Dec 2013
#59
More accurately, it's just as easy for *you* to "dismiss every feminist complaint", as I feel neithe
LanternWaste
Dec 2013
#399
It's an old sport for poor saps who have to wait ten minutes for their "dates" to buffer.
LanternWaste
Dec 2013
#6
Because anonymous posters would never lie about any personal information.
Old and In the Way
Dec 2013
#110
Sure but don't anyone pick on men, because they are always the biggest victims nt
geek tragedy
Dec 2013
#27
you were pissed men had to absorb womens health care. we disagreed. you see that as an attack, ok
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#43
i will go there when you call out the women who "attacked" you. i disagreed with you over and over
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#73
yes, we all saw that. It was a lot of people, men and women and 90% disagreed with you...
bettyellen
Dec 2013
#178
no. it was you continually putting out misinformation and people were giving you the correct info.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#222
are we too allowed to disagree iwth the OP when it states men should not have to absorb medical cost
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#113
silliness. i asked you to clarify. that simple. have an issue with someone asking a question? or
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#202
Is calling men engaging in consenting behavior with a women "scum" acceptable
Hissyspit
Dec 2013
#209
are the scum rapists/ cause i call the revenge porn dudes and rapists bottomfeeders. is that ok? nt
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#210
Your post is factually false and is excuse-making for bad behavior by men.
geek tragedy
Dec 2013
#301
do you know the genesis of these topics? I don't. I imagine they spring from HOF board, but
Pretzel_Warrior
Dec 2013
#14
So, you can see, when something like that gets posted, and a bunch of guys
geek tragedy
Dec 2013
#46
But that was taken as a personal insult by some here, who subsequently felt the need
Squinch
Dec 2013
#47
and yet some feel the need to school men, its no longer about discussing viewpoints or
loli phabay
Dec 2013
#86
i often ask. as i did in a post above. then i got insulted for asking. ya. it is good to ask
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#203
there are a lot of posts that make one feel being male is some sort of defect
Pretzel_Warrior
Dec 2013
#36
let's put it this way. insulting, derogatory code words toward men are accepted on here quite often
Pretzel_Warrior
Dec 2013
#48
I see them, but I don't perceive them as addressing anything I do, so I am not offended, nt
geek tragedy
Dec 2013
#49
i am called a prude daily by a number of men. not to mention emotionally unstable, man hater. i had
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#54
all I can speak to is what I see on GD since that's where I spend 99% of my time
Pretzel_Warrior
Dec 2013
#66
ok. prude has nothing to do with who i am, it is used as an insult. please do not assume you or
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#70
we're not all the same person. You seem to be lumping all men together in your comment above
Pretzel_Warrior
Dec 2013
#78
men does not equal ALL men. obviously, if you do not do what i am speaking about you are not part
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#85
For years, you've come across on DU as if you are THE final word in human sexuality
Schema Thing
Dec 2013
#277
you perceive that is who i am. you do not like what i am saying, so you create me in that lite.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#278
again. this is YOUR attempt to paint me in an unfavorable light to heighten hostility.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#280
You mean you won't be joining those who are here to educate the women in how to do
Squinch
Dec 2013
#53
ummm. he has consistently directed women how we should behave. so, i hardly take him
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#58
I try to stay out of this crap. But what the hell are you talking about?
Comrade Grumpy
Dec 2013
#71
Now, pit bulls, guns, ducks, anti-feminist men, guns, Zimmybalisms, gazing men, guns...
Eleanors38
Dec 2013
#171
Or maybe even news in general... "Thrash This Thread" and the ignore list are my favorites these
Purveyor
Dec 2013
#224
maybe there is no obvious pattern. a female on DU noted in seabeyond's reply to Skinner
Pretzel_Warrior
Dec 2013
#41
I've just looked at seabeyond's transparency page, and the only obvious pattern I see....
Violet_Crumble
Dec 2013
#121
i told one to fuck off. he sent all the women in hof a nasty vulgar pm. was tos'ed an hour later.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#126
lets break this down violet. respectfully. i am saying i did not say fuck you, to polly.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#135
What a load of bullshit.... stopped reading. right here. we do this ALL the time.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#146
not run away. i am not putting up with insults and attacks. hence me telling you
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#154
You also used sexist language to me, and persisted when told to stop. Any man would have
msanthrope
Dec 2013
#422
Only if one thinks the point of a message board is to talk shit about people
BainsBane
Dec 2013
#418
i called your daughter the s word. you accuse me of that also. UNTIL you admit didnt really
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#342
how selective are you? present the whole issue. present whole post. present what i was addressing
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#363
let me show you the hypocrisy at the risk of pushback for "educating" skinners word i say with snark
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#367
boobquake? ya. right. nothing about flashing with boobquake. i am schooled. but hey... shift
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#374
wtf, dude. can you get any more stupid in insulting and personally attacking me out of the blue.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#369
"I would've sued RQ for libel when she made the claim about supporting pedophiles."
redqueen
Dec 2013
#384
Because seldom does a day go by when someone doesn't tell sea that they just served on a jury for
Sheldon Cooper
Dec 2013
#174
well, this is a progressive website and when have we progressives been so nicely-nice about our
CTyankee
Dec 2013
#185
link to the personal attacks. i go after the issue. that simple. link to personal attack and insults
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#205
i am still seriously waiting for the personal attack and name calling. i take pride not going there.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#221
i told one troll to fuck off who had been here a while and sent all of us vulgar pms. i have not
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#207
i ignored it. but he came on a thread in hof and snarked/scorned at me, right after i read his pm.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#217
Oh, christ, I'm sorry Sea. That's bad. but I'm glad Skinner got rid of him...
CTyankee
Dec 2013
#223
lol. that wont be one i agpologize for. what many do not know is i reached out to him many times
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#230
I hope you documented that in your communications with the admins. That's the only way to
CTyankee
Dec 2013
#233
no. i dont mess with that. i figure if administration has any interest, they can figure it out. nt
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#235
Really? You think women here on DU want to snip snip your balls off with hedge clippers?
boston bean
Dec 2013
#44
I don't understand why they are spending so much time leering at them otherwise.
NoOneMan
Dec 2013
#50
Please post links. I would love to see your definition of 'picking fights'! I bet it is disagreeing'
Logical
Dec 2013
#56
If you believe there is a host-wide conspiracy to lock/leave specific type of posts
idwiyo
Dec 2013
#288
Adding an 'ignore and block' feature would help, I think. Too many fucking stalkers.
PeaceNikki
Dec 2013
#74
A lot of it began when some feminists here started threads that supported bans on pornography
davidn3600
Dec 2013
#107
i see you have not corrected your error that women started the post about rape porn. man starts it
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#345
The problem with feminism is not that it's out of date, but that's it no longer has a goal
davidn3600
Dec 2013
#147
yeah, when I think of the failing of society to address equal pay, first group I blame is feminists
geek tragedy
Dec 2013
#153
the problem is YOU aren't aware or interested in our goals, to the extent that you have convinced
bettyellen
Dec 2013
#177
And many women feel they are close to those goals or have already been accomplished
davidn3600
Dec 2013
#187
wow, a bunch of anecdotal nonsense. Gosh thanks, I will decline the opportunity to
bettyellen
Dec 2013
#191
you ought to check out the young feminist of today. they are even more bad ass than 2nd wave. ahhh
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#215
and women are imprisoned during pregnancy to be better incubators. But "abortion is settled"
bettyellen
Dec 2013
#275
oh, christ, stop with the condescending attitude already. It doesn't work any more.
CTyankee
Dec 2013
#182
feminism has NEVER been popular with the general population. and LOOK at all we have accomplished.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#228
you are wrong. go back and read 1920. no. feminism has never had popular support. and du is an
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#234
Spouse and I are old, too, altho we haven't been together as long as you have...
CTyankee
Dec 2013
#144
Didn't seem to be as much of a problem until we both retired and were together 24/7
tularetom
Dec 2013
#183
Sad indeed. It's the 2-minute hate or the apocalypse. No news to chew on, so bite each other...
freshwest
Dec 2013
#133
Only poor saps with no life lurking in their parents basement are like this.
Blue_Adept
Dec 2013
#149
ha. you might want to address the person that actually choose to call women bitches, dontcha think?
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#261
we all have assholes. we all have asshole behavior. it is gender neutral. that is about
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#270
consisten behavior from a previously tos'ed poster. following me around with your jabs.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#284
To be fair, he called the men 'assholes'. He's clearly an equal opportunity offender.
Flatulo
Dec 2013
#421
You used sexist language towards me and refused to stop. Should you be lecturing others? nt
msanthrope
Dec 2013
#423
If there is a war between the sexes, one need only look at the halls of power,
redqueen
Dec 2013
#225
Sure been an uptick in posts calling all men creepy pervs who are potential rapists.
Vashta Nerada
Dec 2013
#194
I have theories, but vocalizing them would probably get me hidden, sad to say.
Starry Messenger
Dec 2013
#237
This is just a new RW ploy to soil the site. It's so easy to put the assholes on Ignore and
valerief
Dec 2013
#246
trumad. I am so happy you have changed your ways. It is really refreshing, though highly
madinmaryland
Dec 2013
#257
It's absolutely unbelievable that they still use the "man hater" canard to try to shut feminists up.
redqueen
Dec 2013
#294
i was just otld that saying "man haters" would get a hide, each and every time. waiting.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#305
8 yrs of rules. no sexism. 2 years, no rules.... that would be the difference. nt
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#346
ONE post accusing most men are rapist. ONE. where is the respect for fellow duers? you are right,
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#403
"Congratulations for bringing Meta back, and good trolling." indeed. Merry Fucking Christmas All. nt
Electric Monk
Dec 2013
#333
So we are supposed to believe anecdotal information from you. Don't you have another
madinmaryland
Dec 2013
#410
What I don't understand is that DU is supposedly a Left leaning web site with Liberal, empathic men.
RC
Dec 2013
#339
a PSA from india was posted. the hysteria erupted. how is that any more black and white than it gets
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#347
wrong. a PSA was put out. 130 rec. lots of people in the thread liking. not a group. not a few.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#351
you skipped a step. though 130 rec the PSA, all kinds of people validate PSA, HOF and me particular
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#349
some chick... would that be a subthread of sexism of yours? where you got a hidden post. insulting
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#353
but... we are the bad guys. addressing the issue time and again as we are personally attacked.
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#364
Gee sorry, I guess it's cause I only see testimony and videos from former female porn stars crying
redqueen
Dec 2013
#388
Wow, so exited porn stars who talk about having been raped are all liars trying to make more money?
redqueen
Dec 2013
#394
"Porn is abusive to many." in your own words. and when we say it? we are attacked, called liars,
seabeyond
Dec 2013
#400
"And to use such vulgar language to convey their point only proves their disdain for men."
JTFrog
Dec 2013
#385