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In reply to the discussion: Women of DU [View all]Old and In the Way
(37,540 posts)181. Hi RQ....I have to admit something on this thread.
I, too, was sorta raped. My folks used to have really wild paries (hey, they survived WW2....wth!). Anyways, one night, one of my mother's drunk friends decided that she needed to "teach me how to be a man". For that, I'm thankful. Shit happens. Honest to god, it happened...but I'll probably be banned because I'm a male and this is counter to your reality. Anyways, we're all anonymous posters here and I'm sorry for your awful experience...but mine had a happy ending. Oh well.
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Well, as an adult, their words don't bother me so much, but some have gotten very angry
boston bean
Dec 2013
#8
the problem is that some men can and do get violent when humiliated and rejected.
geek tragedy
Dec 2013
#43
I would tell them I was going to march down to the police station and report them
BainsBane
Dec 2013
#55
Report them for what? Although creepy, I don't think looking at someone, even an underage
kelly1mm
Dec 2013
#104
That surely is and it is tragic that it happened to you. I thought the comment was about
kelly1mm
Dec 2013
#124
Sexualizing via looking/staring/oggling underage (or overage) women is a problem. It is not illegal.
kelly1mm
Dec 2013
#133
This is probably the most offensive post anyone has ever written to me on DU
boston bean
Dec 2013
#14
Thanks! One more visit to the hot celebrities thread and it's off to fix dinner! n/t
lumberjack_jeff
Dec 2013
#162
let's start with you not being qualified to tell other people why they feel what they feel. nt
geek tragedy
Dec 2013
#34
Seriously? Telling men that they are "ogling"; because they want to make women feel...
lumberjack_jeff
Dec 2013
#157
his intent was to belittle the woman's feelings. one has to ask why he felt the need.
bettyellen
Dec 2013
#117
learn from this one thing, it is different if you are a man. you haven't had people rub off on you
bettyellen
Dec 2013
#164
multiply it by 20 and you'll know what we have heard from friends, and then that
bettyellen
Dec 2013
#170
Recently on the bus I watched a middle aged man, 45 or so, openly stare at a young pretty woman.
CrispyQ
Dec 2013
#23
some 'men' have suggested that women wear burkas if they don't like being stared at.
geek tragedy
Dec 2013
#89
I said that because people have said that women are only uncomfortable if ugly men
boston bean
Dec 2013
#95
I see a lot of anger from men who got the same look that you did, now directed at women….
bettyellen
Dec 2013
#109
The title of this thread is not "Du men, post your dishonest excuses for ogling women" nt
geek tragedy
Dec 2013
#91
I don't find women staring at my breasts. They might do so in a picture, but in real life
boston bean
Dec 2013
#136
You just LIED about the study you're citing. They did not conclude it was ogling.
geek tragedy
Dec 2013
#103
I'm sure all the women here greatly appreciate you men's rights types explaining what women
geek tragedy
Dec 2013
#110
Do men rights type passively dismiss any woman's posts as rad fem talking points?
NoOneMan
Dec 2013
#115
Creeped out mostly by but certainly not exclusive by older men many, many times.
Whisp
Dec 2013
#114
Speaking as a guy in his fifties I wonder if this guy had a daughter or at least a niece or two.
Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin
Dec 2013
#137
I am struck by how it starts at the same age for most who are talking about it
Ms. Toad
Dec 2013
#160
As a man, I feel creeped out by bulge hunting women who stare at my "package".
panader0
Dec 2013
#168