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Dragonfli

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Sat Apr 13, 2013, 05:31 PM Apr 2013

It's time to examine where my loyalties lie, you judge, I'll just explain my position. [View all]

From my perspective, the party I joined thirty five years ago was a party I believed in and so gave my loyalty, It was the party of The New Deal, The Great Society and at the time I joined also the party of civil liberty and equal rights. I see a party in 2013 that is not that party. The question of my loyalty now becomes murky. I think my loyalty now only belongs to my class.

So many here and in the party leadership are comfortable and this place of comfort has made them cold to the reality that is daily life for a great many people.

They make many assumptions from ivory towers of middle class or wealth with little awareness it would seem of those that are lower middle class (quickly falling into poverty even tho they work harder with multiple McJobs than they did before lower middle class meant poverty).

As to the poor - they seem completely oblivious to them and convince themselves that welfare reform didn't harm anybody, it did and does to this day I assure you, it was not a pragmatic solution to a "welfare queen" problem handled well because a Democrat helped to all but destroy it. It will not be a brave pragmatic solution to "earned benefit queens" as they collude yet again with republicans to begin to shred these last vestiges of the new deal and great society.

They cause the poor to become poorer still while applauding the politicians responsible. Their applause and support are what make them just as responsible as their political idols.

They think this is a game, or a sport with my team and their team, not realizing or caring that the ball that is tossed around in this sport is a child that only gets to eat at school and will soon lose that food, or the ball is an elderly widow or widower that can only afford to take their medicine every other day or maybe will freeze to death in a small flat during a winter they could not pay their gas bill (this happens ALREADY).

There are many other balls tossed around for their sport and amusement, too many to list them all here, some are dead or dying, some are living under a tarp in a vacant lot hoping the cops don't roust them or the suburban teanagers don't decide to slum it and amuse themselves by assaulting them while laughing and taunting the "bum" for cell phone footage. Some of these comfortable people give advice to "the poor that in fact do ok". One of them suggested dumpster diving as a viable and reasonable option.

Too many of them applaud policies and politicians that make all these problems worse, they need to get it through their heads, many are dying and more will die of poverty, this is no game and the poor aren't doing ok, they are doing worse all the time with less help available all the time.

It is not serious, pragmatic, or brave to cause more people to suffer and die in poverty because it is referred to flippantly as "eating peas" or "being adult". It is not pragmatic even when the ones shipping away the jobs or destroying welfare "feel your pain". It never was bravery, but cowardice. It is not balanced when an increasing number of people fall into poverty and die while others become wealthier at an exponential rate.

The punditry, politicians, and comfortable may think it is a fun sport full of serious brave adults that make hard decisions.

Cowards all really, making easy decisions, easy because their decisions don't harm them, but rather the poor they barely acknowledge exist for the profit of the wealthy.

Sometimes they even have the gaul to pat themselves on the back and reassure each other "the poor in fact do ok".

I feel very sincerely about these class and poverty issues, I give my loyalty completely to the forgotten, struggling and increasingly poor working classes that birthed me. You decide if that makes me disloyal to this board or the party that has all but forgotten us for donations and pyrrhic election victories, because I will fight tooth and nail against any one of you or any elected Democrat that is harmful to my class, in other words harmful to most of America.
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K&R! We have fallen far! MannyGoldstein Apr 2013 #1
The 99% are stirring, we may overwhelm the bastards with numbers and take back our party Dragonfli Apr 2013 #12
Kick! DJ13 Apr 2013 #2
And Lyin Ryan gleefully proposes.... socialindependocrat Apr 2013 #3
If I could do the 'sticky" thing to keep this... 99Forever Apr 2013 #4
+1 n/t ChazII Apr 2013 #20
I completely agree with where our loyalties should be. And that the party we joined was the most sabrina 1 Apr 2013 #5
I can see that people are waking up (except for in the bubblesphere of TV and DC) Dragonfli Apr 2013 #10
Actually the Democrats got sidetracked and hijacked in the early 90's Armstead Apr 2013 #88
That's true. It definitely did begin then. But we didn't have the internet then so it was less sabrina 1 Apr 2013 #93
Amen - Hell Hath No Fury Apr 2013 #6
I'm right there with you. K & R. whathehell Apr 2013 #7
Thank you, Dragonfli etherealtruth Apr 2013 #8
I'm with you word for word Tom Rinaldo Apr 2013 #9
The way they use the term shared sacrifice is an insult to our intelligence and innate morality Dragonfli Apr 2013 #15
Here, here! ChaoticTrilby Apr 2013 #57
Dragonfli - i was thinking along these same lines, but truedelphi Apr 2013 #11
I love that idea, voting on the issues, rather than for people. sabrina 1 Apr 2013 #14
Perhaps Gingrich had the idea in the 1990's... Blanks Apr 2013 #98
I agree truedelphi and I like Sabrina's take on it Dragonfli Apr 2013 #30
Or maybe we should do something similar to parliamentary type systems Cleita Apr 2013 #50
Might I add (with props to Norman Goldman)... Stardust Apr 2013 #105
Spot on! Veilex Apr 2013 #106
Those are very good ideas. truedelphi Apr 2013 #113
This concept of voting on issues, not canditates, is brilliant. Seriously. Wish I Stardust Apr 2013 #109
this is a moment of reevaluation for any progressive Democrat carolinayellowdog Apr 2013 #13
A little history and something I didn't know until yesterday when I was Cleita Apr 2013 #16
Well, Harry was willing to incinerate civilians. Perhaps HW was not. WinkyDink Apr 2013 #34
Maybe. Shameful history all the way. n/t Cleita Apr 2013 #36
Good find! I must have learned and forgotten that bit from history. Dragonfli Apr 2013 #37
We need to take this party over. They keep shoving us socialist progressive types Cleita Apr 2013 #38
Very interesting, there's a lot I didn't know about our history either and in many ways I have Bush sabrina 1 Apr 2013 #42
I beleive you made a right decision, but I am a commie. :) idwiyo Apr 2013 #17
Me too, Id......... socialist_n_TN Apr 2013 #21
TWO commies... Someone will be here shortly to accuse us of planning to take over DU! idwiyo Apr 2013 #31
Oh that's already happened........ socialist_n_TN Apr 2013 #35
:) :) :) idwiyo Apr 2013 #41
I consider you reds allies, were it not for Communists the "New Deal compromise" Dragonfli Apr 2013 #52
Why THANK you Dragon....... socialist_n_TN Apr 2013 #55
There are no differences between us really. Socialism and Communism is not something that can be idwiyo Apr 2013 #75
Mixed economy is just one of the steps towards communism. :) idwiyo Apr 2013 #72
Kick. idwiyo Apr 2013 #94
Brava!!! OneGrassRoot Apr 2013 #18
One aspect of this huge disconnect SheilaT Apr 2013 #19
Well, that is interesting, SheilaT Iwillnevergiveup Apr 2013 #83
I've read the Rick Bragg book. It's very good. SheilaT Apr 2013 #85
Personally, I love history but I've become skeptical about who to trust anymore. nt Stardust Apr 2013 #108
Proud to STAND with YOU and the Class that birthed me too. bvar22 Apr 2013 #22
The Second bill of rights is an expression of my ideal party values Dragonfli Apr 2013 #54
HUGE K & R !!! - Thank You !!! WillyT Apr 2013 #23
I'm with you. Now... cbrer Apr 2013 #24
I don't know, but I hope it is not 'even more extreme poverty', that spark may involve Dragonfli Apr 2013 #58
Until we rid ourselves of an obstructionist House... randome Apr 2013 #25
We could move a whole lot more of it if so-called Democrats weren't making Republican proposals sabrina 1 Apr 2013 #45
Helping to move harmful legislation is not the answer to obstructionism. Dragonfli Apr 2013 #63
Loyalities, disillusionment! humbled_opinion Apr 2013 #26
Very nice post, thank you! n/t sabrina 1 Apr 2013 #81
Can't find anything to disagree with here. zeemike Apr 2013 #27
Great position statement Dragon......... socialist_n_TN Apr 2013 #28
'Con los pobres de la tierra'. With the poor people of this earth I want to share my fate. Tierra_y_Libertad Apr 2013 #29
I'm with you. djean111 Apr 2013 #32
I am WITH you, Dragonfli! New Dealer-bred, born in '49; it defines me and my politics. WinkyDink Apr 2013 #33
Well, I'll be damned... whathehell Apr 2013 #44
K&R! SammyWinstonJack Apr 2013 #39
Think back to Obama's reaction during the State of the Union to Citizens United . . . SleeplessinSoCal Apr 2013 #40
You must've slept thru the Clinton years... Cooley Hurd Apr 2013 #43
So you didn't read the OP? sabrina 1 Apr 2013 #48
I did. And he's blaming this President for things FAR milder than Clinton did... Cooley Hurd Apr 2013 #51
I didn't use his name, but who else "felt my pain" while exporting our jobs via NAFTA? Dragonfli Apr 2013 #65
Everyone has felt the pain since 1994... Cooley Hurd Apr 2013 #67
"I feel your pain" is a quote consistently attributed to Clinton magical thyme Apr 2013 #96
I read that you meant Clinton. Yes, yes he did begin the rightward slide of this party. ancianita Apr 2013 #70
He spoke about the downward slide of the Democratic Party over the past twenty years. I think that sabrina 1 Apr 2013 #78
No, I was working while volunteering to help real poor people on the lower west Dragonfli Apr 2013 #61
"you inhaled the methane and bought the con job." Cooley Hurd Apr 2013 #66
I'm sorry, I misinterpreted your post to mean I was wrong to criticise him and so Dragonfli Apr 2013 #71
any post consisting of "you"+stupid insult carolinayellowdog Apr 2013 #95
Must K & R L0oniX Apr 2013 #46
Well said, my friend HarveyDarkey Apr 2013 #47
Du rec. Nt xchrom Apr 2013 #49
The Republicans have made a sport out of dumping on the poor Lydia Leftcoast Apr 2013 #53
The Highest Of DU Recommendations cantbeserious Apr 2013 #56
Well Said and I agree... creativebliss Apr 2013 #59
I'm with you 100% obxhead Apr 2013 #60
K&R, I'm with you all the way. ChaoticTrilby Apr 2013 #62
I've never been much of a party guy stupidicus Apr 2013 #64
Bravo, Dragonfli, bravo! democrank Apr 2013 #68
Excellent heartfelt post, thank you for speaking up for the poor. So few do it any more. sabrina 1 Apr 2013 #82
If we could rec posts, this should definitely be one We People Apr 2013 #87
. rhett o rick Apr 2013 #91
I like your post better Dragonfli Apr 2013 #92
You're fine. I'm with you as a progressive social Democrat. I'm for constantly confronting the DLC- ancianita Apr 2013 #69
Bravo. We need more 840high Apr 2013 #73
K&R I'm with you. Anyone who isn't is not a Democrat. forestpath Apr 2013 #74
They only call it "Class Warfare" when we fight back. . . . .n/t annabanana Apr 2013 #76
K&R. Dragonfli. JDPriestly Apr 2013 #77
Well said! Totally agree with you. Riley18 Apr 2013 #79
Maybe all of us should thank (or blame) our teachers who taught us to value principles. AnotherMcIntosh Apr 2013 #80
Dragonfli, woo me with science Apr 2013 #84
Doing the 12:45 AM EST kick! Please keep kicking this BobbyBoring Apr 2013 #86
Politicians who don't give a rat's ass about whether you live or die jsr Apr 2013 #89
Thank you, Dragonfli We People Apr 2013 #90
best post I've read all week piratefish08 Apr 2013 #97
Best thread in a long time N_E_1 for Tennis Apr 2013 #99
Our plight today is the far end of an unbroken chain of actors and events going Egalitarian Thug Apr 2013 #116
K&R Great post, as usual! nt raouldukelives Apr 2013 #100
"Cowards all really, making easy decisions" MannyGoldstein Apr 2013 #101
Those w/ the luxuries of job, home, health care, vs those who don't reveals how being comfortable midnight Apr 2013 #102
K&R MotherPetrie Apr 2013 #103
This OP and all the haikugal Apr 2013 #104
Giving this a Sunday K & R Lifelong Protester Apr 2013 #107
K&R G_j Apr 2013 #110
K&R for the weekend. More and more of us are coming to this understanding every day. n/t Egalitarian Thug Apr 2013 #111
K&R LWolf Apr 2013 #112
K&R DeSwiss Apr 2013 #114
Not my place to judge you. Rex Apr 2013 #115
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