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In reply to the discussion: When the word 'pussy' is used an insult, do you perceive it as sexist? [View all]JoePhilly
(27,787 posts)I know that seems like an obvious statement, but I think its important when we discuss the appropriateness of ANY term that is used as an "insult".
Let's all STEP BACK.
Let's imagine that I really really want to INSULT you.
I've already decided that I'm going to INSULT you. I just need to decide HOW.
And so, I pick the word, or phrase, that I think will upset YOU the most. In other words, the word used is not important, except to the extent that it angers the target.
A Homophobe hates to be called GAY.
A right wing tough guy will hate to be called a PUSSY.
I'm not saying it a great idea to use these terms, its not ... but ... I do think some use them specifically because they know the target will be angered.
Which is usually the POINT of an insult.