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AverageMe

(91 posts)
Thu Jan 31, 2013, 12:33 AM Jan 2013

The root of all problems with guns [View all]

I was doing a reply to the post about "Cops handcuff and interrogate boy, 7, for hours over missing $5: family" http://www.democraticunderground.com/10022285356 when I realized I had presented the perfect case why assault rifles should be banned. I was talking about my son:

I do not believe in corporal punishment. I take away things he wants and send him to his room, but he still does not listen, or attend school if he feels he has something better to do. He is now 15 and I am very worried about him. He hits his *girlfriend* and always gets in fights that are *never his fault*. What can I do. I have sent him to psychiatrist but he will not talk to them. He knows I will never hit him, so he has no respect for me or anyone. A little police terror might get his attention.


I have been dealing with this for five years. He knows that I love him, and he is not a bad kid. He just loses his temper rapidly when he feels he is disrespected. Why he hits his girlfriend, I do not know, he certainly did not learn that from me. He is a good looking, even handsome, boy and she gets jealous when he talks with other girls. He says she has to know her place. I tell them both, they are too young to be more then friends, but it goes in one ear and out the other and never stops in the brain. I think I have spoken to every therapist in town. He is smart and he knows it, gets straight A's in school, although he does not attend half the time, and dismisses therapy as just being mumbo-jumbo. If you take every bad thing you heard about Mitt bossing people around when he was young, that is my son. The world has to follow his rules, he does not have to follow the world's rules. This is why I wish the police would put a little respect and terror in him. I do not know what I can do!!!


I have never been a gun owner and have no weapons in my home. My son has never shown an interest in guns. But what kind of fear would I live in if I had weapons in my home and my son had an interest in guns. This is something we should think about. My son is not crazy, he gets into a lot of fights but it has never been something bad enough to involve the police. He does not fight on school grounds. Right now it only involves bloody noses and black eyes, but what if he had access to an AR-15.
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Have you taught him what is moral, what will succeed in life? freshwest Jan 2013 #1
I have tried, as I said he is a good kid and is smart AverageMe Jan 2013 #4
You sound bambozzled by your own kid. I have to admit, I was religious when my kid was small. freshwest Jan 2013 #8
I am his Step-father and entered his life when he was eight years old AverageMe Jan 2013 #12
Okay, you just added another dimension here. Step-father. freshwest Jan 2013 #17
Thank you Freshwest for caring. AverageMe Jan 2013 #21
You think THAT is the answer to gun violence? Zoeisright Jan 2013 #9
Wow... freshwest Jan 2013 #10
Do you think Berserker Jan 2013 #11
ZoeisHyperbolic! galileoreloaded Jan 2013 #13
Agreed ErikJ Jan 2013 #15
gun humpers? backwoodsbob Jan 2013 #34
Respectfully, I don't see a happy future for your son. aikoaiko Jan 2013 #2
I fear you are correct, but he does not understand this AverageMe Jan 2013 #5
sorry but...he sounds like a sociopath backwoodsbob Jan 2013 #36
Why should you take my guns away from me, because your son is troubled? N/T GreenStormCloud Jan 2013 #3
Because people like my son exist AverageMe Jan 2013 #6
Anyone who has been convicted of a violent crime should be on the NICS list. GreenStormCloud Jan 2013 #27
The Root Of The Problems Right Here... KharmaTrain Jan 2013 #22
"why assault rifles should be banned." hack89 Jan 2013 #23
Cause He Has An Opinion... KharmaTrain Jan 2013 #24
His son should not be allowed to purchase or own a firearm hack89 Jan 2013 #25
... until he breaks into your house and steals your gun ... Myrina Jan 2013 #28
If you want 100% guarantees I can't help you hack89 Jan 2013 #31
Because he said that he wants to ban all assault weapons. GreenStormCloud Jan 2013 #29
Hitting his Berserker Jan 2013 #7
I demystified firearms for my stepson, as my stepfather did for me at age 10. slackmaster Jan 2013 #14
You need to get your step-son to a mental health professional. Jenoch Jan 2013 #16
Thank you Jenoch AverageMe Jan 2013 #19
Yes--NPD Narcissist Personality Disorder marions ghost Jan 2013 #33
You ask the wrong question. ManiacJoe Jan 2013 #18
How many Gun owners take all the precautions that they should take? AverageMe Jan 2013 #20
Most of the ones that I know. ManiacJoe Jan 2013 #42
Nobody is forcing you to buy a semi-auto cosmetically impaired firearm. Remmah2 Jan 2013 #26
You can read here if you like 2on2u Jan 2013 #30
Post removed Post removed Jan 2013 #32
so you KNOW he has physically assaulted... actslikeacarrot Jan 2013 #35
The confused girl who is putting up with this marions ghost Jan 2013 #38
i think if the... actslikeacarrot Jan 2013 #39
The disturbing thing is marions ghost Jan 2013 #40
This message was self-deleted by its author Lizzie Poppet Jan 2013 #37
If I found out my son had hit a girl... loose wheel Jan 2013 #41
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