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In reply to the discussion: 'Revenge porn' is about degrading women sexually and professionally [View all]NewJeffCT
(56,828 posts)20. great perspective
Oddly, my ex-wife may have been the most talkative/outgoing person I've ever met, but since our divorce was finalized in 2000, we've barely communicated. We exchanged a few emails in 2005 or 2006, and ran into each other in a very unusual location last year.
So, I have no idea if her family hates me or not, other than one time when she first filed for divorce and moved out, she said that her parents didn't hate me. They live in NJ, and I'm in CT, so I'd have to go out of my way to even see them. My ex did say that she didn't hate me when we exchanged those emails several years back, but then it was also clear that listening was still not a strong suit of hers in that email exchange.
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'Revenge porn' is about degrading women sexually and professionally [View all]
Judi Lynn
Jan 2013
OP
thanks red, and all the men in this subthread. an example of being the better person... absolutely.
seabeyond
Jan 2013
#30
exactly. thank you for saying it the way it is. she can be a piece of shit. and if a man puts the
seabeyond
Jan 2013
#29
I suppose if you're gonna send pics like that, you'd have to expect at some point it'd be exposed.
ObaMania
Jan 2013
#6
To the whole world? Of course not. Otherwise no one would agree to be photographed/filmed
nomorenomore08
Jan 2013
#7
The only positive outcome is that even some of the creepers are saying that now
Recursion
Jan 2013
#12
I only feel for those photographed/filmed against their will. That's pathetic. nt
EastKYLiberal
Jan 2013
#41
Agreed. Especially if you cheat on the person in possession of these images/videos. nt
EastKYLiberal
Jan 2013
#40
Still not remotely comparable to forcefully taking off clothes and having forced sex
Ter
Jan 2013
#66
I'm sorry to hear that, and you suffered far more than some yahoo showing his ex naked
Ter
Jan 2013
#70
Yeah I guess I get caught up in things and let my emotions get the best of me
Arcanetrance
Jan 2013
#74
do we really need a vile creep scale? this creep is only disgusting. but THIS creep is vile.
seabeyond
Jan 2013
#71
i am told by too many. it is the womens fault. and we should expect no more from men.
seabeyond
Jan 2013
#24
yes. and that is what i pointed out in the other two threads. the men that use they sites to get off
seabeyond
Jan 2013
#39
Men (and women) who promulgate it degrade themselves as much as their targets
slackmaster
Jan 2013
#48
Said it twice already, will say it again. DO NOT TAKE NAKED PICTURES OF YOURSELF
SWTORFanatic
Jan 2013
#56
i told hubby this one last night. he just shook his head in disgust.... he truly cannot believe
seabeyond
Jan 2013
#73
"While that's great news for folks who have, say, an unrequited zombie fetish"
ZombieHorde
Jan 2013
#76
It's funny, the people in this thread congratulating themselves for never taking a naked photo.
Warren DeMontague
Jan 2013
#80