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Manifestor_of_Light

(21,046 posts)
21. It's who you know. Not how much education you have. Hard work doesn't mean shit.
Mon Dec 24, 2012, 04:35 AM
Dec 2012

College education is a cruel joke like bait on a string.

I am a baby boomer. BA in biology. Never got a job with it. Parents made me major in science, believing that would get me a job.

Went to law school at night for 5 years and worked full time at the courthouse. Never got a job with a J.D.

Vocational school degree provided me with a well paying but extremely stressful job at the courthouse.

Spent years in crisis/panic mode over college, bad grades, flunking courses, verbally abusive relationships with hostile men, finding a job, losing a job, verbal abuse from lawyers and judges, inherent stress in my job, financial problems, etc.

I felt like a failure, becuse I didn't make good grades oftentimes. I was in the wrong major due to parental pressure. I thought the world was going to come to an end if I flunked a course or l lost a job. Had several diff stress-caused illnesses starting in junior high school.

I was extremely disciplined and motivated in college to go to class and do my work. My parents were very supportive. We were in the middle class because my dad went to night school on the GI Bill after the war and became an attorney.


I never had to take out loans (in the 70s) and my parents paid my way and I worked in the summers during college. I paid for the J.D. by working full time to an expensive, free-standing law school. The BA was also from an expensive private school, considered the best pre-med school in the state.

I'm a perfectionist. I had a long series of different stress-caused illnesses,starting in junior high school and continuing until after I was burned out at my job before I was 35.

I had a couple of chronic medical problems where I did not have as much energy as your testosterone fueled coffee drinking yuppie would have, and was called "lazy" and "slow". This was with an IQ of 145 (3 SDs >average, defined as 1 out of 1,000 people).

I don't know the right people to get a job and I would be considered as coming from a middle-class family as it was defined in the 50s and 60s. I also feel that my career as a cog in the judicial system was utterly meaningless.

Spent 12 years in college that I consider to be wasted as far as being appreciated and getting a job I was truly qualified for, let alone making substantial money and having a real career. Didn't have mentors. Too much dog-eat-dog competition. Only people trying to STOP me, lie about me, fire me for stupid reasons, not hire me for stupid reasons, not pay me, tell me I'm incompetent when I'm overqualified, etc.

Crashed physically from stress & exhaustion in 88 with near-fatal pneumonia. Sick on and off constantly for 7 or 7 years

The baby boomers are the best-educated generation in history and we got shoved out the door 15-20 years ago.


as a kid in similar straights DonCoquixote Dec 2012 #1
Thanks for posting this. nt Mona Dec 2012 #2
The defunding of public education is creating a hole AlphaCentauri Dec 2012 #3
it goes beyong just the current, recent generations... FirstLight Dec 2012 #4
You should be extremely proud of yourself, whether you get your ticket punched or not. adirondacker Dec 2012 #23
thanks so much FirstLight Dec 2012 #31
K&R nt riderinthestorm Dec 2012 #5
I guess it is like working in a union or non union company riverbendviewgal Dec 2012 #6
I don't know what went wrong. I currently have a home health aide due to some surgery. CTyankee Dec 2012 #7
Yup. Igel Dec 2012 #8
Igel, Thanks for Your Informative and Thoughtful Comments on this Topic Indykatie Dec 2012 #10
It sounds as if you blame the students, the parents, SES "culture..." bread_and_roses Dec 2012 #15
College is Also Becoming Unaffordable for Middle Class Families Indykatie Dec 2012 #9
In most European socialist countries higher education is basically free. xtraxritical Dec 2012 #13
Count me in for a European style system. Government services work program for 2 years and off you go adirondacker Dec 2012 #14
$23K/yr. exboyfil Dec 2012 #26
One thing that jumps out at me Ruby the Liberal Dec 2012 #11
Yes. Along with parties, spring "break" and a host of travel options. n/t adirondacker Dec 2012 #12
Eons ago, when I was in college, Ruby the Liberal Dec 2012 #16
Leisure is important, whether it's a party or just time for a walk through the park. politicat Dec 2012 #17
It should not be that hard for kids to get an education n/t AlphaCentauri Dec 2012 #20
I tip my hat to you... daleanime Dec 2012 #27
K&R JDPriestly Dec 2012 #18
K&R AZ Progressive Dec 2012 #19
It's who you know. Not how much education you have. Hard work doesn't mean shit. Manifestor_of_Light Dec 2012 #21
My situation is somewhat similar Cresent City Kid Dec 2012 #22
College was my ticket out of poverty Politicub Dec 2012 #24
Obtaining a college degree is my most important accomplishment. Politicub Dec 2012 #25
Great articule,glad someone took the time to post it. Wellstone ruled Dec 2012 #28
I have an old friend from the Navy. He chose to become an Union Electrician.... adirondacker Dec 2012 #29
College SUCKS! johnlucas Dec 2012 #30
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