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derby378

(30,252 posts)
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 10:23 PM Dec 2012

Yeah, it's me... [View all]

Go ahead. Blame my AK. Blame the latest Call of Duty videogame release. Blame those old, hyperviolent Popeye cartoons from the AAP studios if you like. Or better yet, just blame every liberal Democrat who owns a gun, already.

The smug self-righteousness of certain gun-grabbers is something we have tolerated for a long time because we actually believe in their Constitutional rights as well as our own. Just keep in mind that most of you DUers do not fall into the category I've just mentioned. Those of you whom I have met in person have been a swell bunch, and I'm glad to know each and every one of you.

You probably remember that my wife, ChickMagic, was a strong supporter of gun control. I'm a little surprised she never joined the Brady Campaign. But you know what? Even though we could disagree strongly on the issue of guns and the Second Amendment, we could discuss the issue like civilized human beings over pizza and sodas. And we even made each other think about our positions once in a while. Believe me, we'd both be furious over what happened in Newtown today, crying our eyes out and hurling curses at the shooter. And I've already shed my tears for those poor kids and their families, pleading with God to bring a measure of solace to those who have had their lives shattered by this tragedy.

But now is not the time to go all Chicken Little on the Constitution. If I remember correctly, the Columbine tragedy happened at a time when our nation's gun laws were at their strongest. The moment we throw reason and justice to the wind and start screaming for the head of every gun owner in America regardless of race, gender, or party affiliation, we are allowing long-dormant demons to awaken and seize control of our mental faculties.

You want laws that would make it harder for the next Lanza to get hold of those weapons? I'm listening. You want improved mental-health screenings to be part of every instant background check? We can look into that. Just because I own a Kalashnikov does not mean that my heart is not sickened by what unfolded today. I want something meaningful done to head off the next VTech, the next Columbine, the next Newtown.

But if all you want is a scapegoat that you can blame this massacre on, look no further than the Lanza family. The answer is in that dysfunctional family dynamic somewhere, and if we can all just calm down long enough for the truth to come out about the Lanzas, I think it will - and it will be a sorry story, indeed.

I need to relax. No, I need to vent my rage. No, I need to shed a few more tears. No, I need to be still. I'm as torn up about Newtown as the rest of you. Surprise? I'm human, after all.

And you folks are my friends. I love you. Without you, DU would be an electronic vacant lot. You make DU what it is.

I'm spent. Off the soapbox now...

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Yeah, it's me... [View all] derby378 Dec 2012 OP
How often does your militia meet? HERVEPA Dec 2012 #1
Well, you and I are talking right now... derby378 Dec 2012 #3
It is meeting right now! cleanhippie Dec 2012 #11
It meets every time two or more people interact, including right here and now. slackmaster Dec 2012 #33
It's not about you, but I can tell from your post that you realize that BeyondGeography Dec 2012 #2
I appreciate that greatly derby378 Dec 2012 #6
The gungeon is that way ----> To the right. morningfog Dec 2012 #4
Deal with it, bucko... derby378 Dec 2012 #5
A perfect example of why we cannot have a serious conversation on this subject. cleanhippie Dec 2012 #9
Kidergarden? Sick shit. morningfog Dec 2012 #10
Day care? cleanhippie Dec 2012 #13
You are too cute by half. Still sick. morningfog Dec 2012 #16
Still unsure why saying you belong in preschool is "sick shit." cleanhippie Dec 2012 #27
he or she is thinking your reference to where children gather- in light of... stlsaxman Dec 2012 #36
Thats a stretch. cleanhippie Dec 2012 #39
Dude, recognize that most of the kids killed were in kindergarten. Barack_America Dec 2012 #44
First grade actually. : ( nt rDigital Dec 2012 #45
Yeah, I suppose I can see that. cleanhippie Dec 2012 #47
Unbelievable, isn't it? cordelia Dec 2012 #31
I hope Skinner sees it, TheCowsCameHome Dec 2012 #32
Hope springs eternal. cordelia Dec 2012 #35
I concur. 99Forever Dec 2012 #42
yikes. Gidney N Cloyd Dec 2012 #18
What a nasty thing to post. myrna minx Dec 2012 #26
And they act like they don't understand. These people. morningfog Dec 2012 #29
It's no act. TheCowsCameHome Dec 2012 #46
That is sick beyond belief. TheCowsCameHome Dec 2012 #30
Here is the BIGGEST hug you will ever get! cleanhippie Dec 2012 #7
Thanks, friend (n/t) derby378 Dec 2012 #15
Love? uh huh...sure... marions ghost Dec 2012 #8
The well regulated militia isn't regulated at all. RomneyLies Dec 2012 #12
Here's one thing that might help... derby378 Dec 2012 #14
Apparently, the mother of today's shooter had these guns in her house with him living there RomneyLies Dec 2012 #17
I think we have a starting point for a serious conversation on gun laws derby378 Dec 2012 #19
Here's another point. If you are on the terrorist watch list, ... RomneyLies Dec 2012 #21
Due process derby378 Dec 2012 #22
You are thinking the "no-fly list" RomneyLies Dec 2012 #24
Alright, who left the lid open? TheCowsCameHome Dec 2012 #20
La tapa esta abierta! nt greyl Dec 2012 #28
The 2nd Amendment is safe, if that's what you're upset about. Honeycombe8 Dec 2012 #23
don't run. we are your friends tiny elvis Dec 2012 #25
Pfffft! derby378 Dec 2012 #41
The problem is that rational discourse disappears when the swarming at either or both ends starts. hobbit709 Dec 2012 #34
I just to know why it is so important for anyone to have easy access to assault weapons. mmonk Dec 2012 #37
When you call us gun-grabbers, you lose us. DainBramaged Dec 2012 #38
Look, I know you have strong feelings about gun control... derby378 Dec 2012 #40
Its a conflict between "rights" and which is greater? My right to live or your right to carry a gun? riderinthestorm Dec 2012 #43
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